Ibhulogi yakamuva Ukulahleka kwezilwane ezifuywayo kanye nezidingo ezikhethekile kulungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/pet-loss-and-special-needs/Emasontweni ambalwa edlule bekufanele senze isinqumo sokuthi ikati lethu le-tabby elithandwa kakhulu lilale.Sibe no-Pixie kusukela u-Sam eneminyaka engaba ngu-3 ubudala; ukuhlenga okuncane, wasikhetha kakhulu.Ngemva kokuxoxa ngesimo somndeni wethu nesikhungo sokuhlenga, intokazi yathi icabanga ukuthi inamakati ambalwa angalingana nesikweletu - ngokushesha nje lapho singena no-Dude ngesihlalo sakhe sokusunduza se-SN, leli tafula elincane elihuqekile, lagijima laqonda phezulu. thina futhi siqhubekele emathangeni ethu abafana, sishoshela njengesithuthuthu.Okunye umlando.U-Pixie wayenomlingiswa omkhulu kakhulu - i-diva enciphayo, ukukhula kwakhe kwaba bushelelezi ngenxa yokuba nodoti ngaphambi kokuba alunge, umoya wakhe wokuphefumula uphume umphumela wesimila emphinjeni wakhe.Yena noDude babethandana kakhulu.Eminyakeni eminingi ngaphambi kokuthi sicabangele inja yokusiza, u-Pixie wazibophezela ukuthi alale ezinyaweni zabafana bethu futhi asivuse ngokugxumela phezu kwethu lapho equleka ebusuku.Wayefuna ukuba ngowokuqala ukumamukela ekhaya evela esikoleni, ahlale emathangeni akhe futhi abe ngowokuqala ukuziveza kubo bonke abantu abasha abangena ngomnyango.Waze 'wazala' uMerlin umdlwane wegolide lapho efika njengomdlwane eminyakeni embalwa kamuva!Ngenkathi i-purr yakhe enomsindo ngendlela emangalisayo kwakuwuphawu lwakhe lokuhweba futhi yasivumela ukuba sazi ukuthi wayephuma kuma-yds angu-100 (esindisa izinyoni eziningi namagundane amancane kule nqubo kunalokho engingacabanga), ekugcineni kwaba yimbangela yokushona kwakhe.Nakuba isimila esabangela ukuba abe nomsindo kangaka sakhishwa phakathi nokuhlinzwa ngaphambi kokuba simthole, ngokuhamba kweminyaka sabuya kancane kancane futhi saba nomdlavuza.Ngenkathi ngakwazi ukuba naye ekugcineni, uDude wayengekho.Lokhu akusikho okokuqala abafana bami behlangana nokufa nokulahlekelwa; kudingeke ukuthi avalelise kubangani abaningi kakhulu empilweni yakhe emfishane, kanye nomkhulu wakhe amthandayo.Kodwa ngo-Pixie, lesi kwakuyisilwane ayesibona nsuku zonke futhi sasingazi ukuthi wayezosabela kanjani kulokhu kulahlekelwa umngane wakhe onoboya ayemthanda kakhulu.Kungase kungabi ukuzikhethela kwawo wonke umuntu, kodwa sakhetha ukumletha ekhaya futhi simngcwabe engadini yethu. Kwasho ukuthi umfana wethu angambona okokugcina avalelise.Ngihlala ngijabula ngokuthi singakwenza lokhu.Kwaba sobala ukuthi umfanyana wethu wayeqonda - akalokothi ehluleke ukusihlaba umxhwele ngokuhlakanipha nokuqonda kwakhe, njengoba enqekuzisa ikhanda futhi engicindezela ngesandla lapho ngimchazela ukuthi wayengahlupheki manje, engiduduza ngesikhathi esifanayo.Wayeyikati lakhe ngokuphelele, ukumnikeza ithuba lokucubungula ukufa kwakhe ngale ndlela kwamsiza ukuba aqonde.Kwavela ukuthi kwakuyi-cathatic yethu sonke.Okuthunyelwe Ukulahlekelwa kwezilwane ezifuywayo kanye nezidingo ezikhethekile kuvele kuqala ku-Firefly Blog.************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/advice -support/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/disabilities/
