Ibhulogi yakamuva Intombazane esetekisini yayo isilungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/the-girl-in-his-taxi/Izinto zokuhamba zesikole ziye zaba umthombo omkhulu wokucindezeleka kimi eminyakeni edlule.Eminyakeni engu-11, indodana yami ye-autistic engakhulumi kuye kwadingeka ithole izinto zokuhamba eziya enkulisa noma esikoleni umhlinzeki uye washintsha njalo ngonyaka.Ngakho njalo ngonyaka kuye kudingeke ukuthi ajwayelane nemoto entsha, umshayeli omusha, abantu abasha abamphelezela, umzila omusha nezingane ezihlukene ahamba nazo kanye nezikhathi ezihlukene zokulandwa nezokwehla.Enganeni elwa kanzima noshintsho, lokhu kubangela ukucindezeleka okukhulu njalo ngonyaka.Kulo nyaka lapho ekugcineni sihlangana nomshayeli omusha kanye nemoto inhliziyo yami yaphinde yacwila.Imoto kulo nyaka bekuyimoto enkulu lapho ezinye izihlalo bezibheke ngemuva!Indodana yami izothathwa ekugcineni futhi inikezwe noma yisiphi isihlalo esikhona ngisho noma lokhu kungabheki phambili.Ngachaza ngobumnene ukuthi unesisindo esikhulu ebuchosheni bakhe futhi ukuhamba ebheke ngemuva kuzomgulisa.Ngixoxile ngombono wakhe okhubazekile nokuthi kungani edinga ukuhlala eceleni njengoba elinye iso lakhe lingaboni nhlobo.Ngabatshela ukuthi unesifo sokuwa futhi akakwazi ukukhuluma ngomlomo ukuthi udonsa kanzima futhi ngeke abonakale esibukweni uma ebheke emuva.Ngenkathi umshayeli evuma ngekhanda kukho konke lokhu ngempela ngangingenaso isiqiniseko sokuthi izinto zizohamba kanjani.Kodwa engangingazi ukuthi kwakuzoba nentombazane etekisini yakhe eyayizoshintsha yonke into!Njengoba itekisi iphuma emzini wami osukwini lwayo lokuqala ebuyile futhi izicabha zivuleka into yokuqala ezwa indodana yami kwakuyizwi lentombazane endala ejabule:“Hawu ngu-Isaka! Mshayeli kuzomele uqaphele ngo-Isaac. Ake ngimsize!”Futhi ngaphambi kokuba noma ubani enze enye into waphuma esihlalweni sakhe futhi wasekela indodana yami emotweni, wayibopha, wayamukela futhi wadela nesihlalo sakhe wahlala ebheke emuva!Indaba ethandekayo yomusa nobuntu kodwa okubaluleke nakakhulu ukuthi intombazane etekisini inobunzima bokufunda futhi inkimbinkimbi iyazidinga yona!Kuningi okucatshangwayo okwenziwe ngabantu abanobunzima bokufunda. Bavamise ukunganakwa futhi abaziswanga emphakathini.Ngokuzayo mhlawumbe uhlangana nomuntu odonsa kanzima ngokuthile, udinga ukwesekwa okwengeziwe noma owaziyo ukuthi unobunzima bokufunda khumbula nje intombazane etekisini yendodana yami.Ukunakekela, uzwelo kanye nomusa awuveza akufanele nanini kukhohlakale.Namuhla indodana yami ye-autistic engakhulumi enezidingo eziphakeme kakhulu ihleke ngokwesasa ngesikhathi ilinde ezokuthutha esikoleni.Izinkathazo zami njengoba umama wakhe eyohlala ekhona kodwa ukwazi ukuthi unomuntu etekisini lakhe omfunayo kwenza inhliziyo yami icule.Entombazaneni egibele itekisi yakhe: siyabonga ngokufundisa abaningi bethu ukuthi babone ngale kwezinkinga zomuntu kodwa babone amakhono abo kanye namandla okuthinta ezinye izimpilo.The post Intombazane esetekisini yakhe appeared first on Firefly Blog .************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/advice -support/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/disabilities/
