Ibhulogi yakamuva Ukufinyelela kumqashi wakho ukuze uthole ukwesekwa isilungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/reaching-out-to-your-employer-for-support/Nginenhlanhla ukuthi indodana yami uJoey icatshangwa kahle umndeni wami, abangani, kanye nozakwethu. Ngasho esihlokweni sami sokugcina mayelana nokufinyelela. Lokhu kumayelana nokuphonsela inselelo amandla akho ezindaweni ezifanele. UJoey ubusisiwe ukuthi abantu abezwa indaba yakhe bafinyelela isandla bathi, 'hey ngingasiza kanjani', 'ngingenzani ukuze ngenze ukuphila kube lula kuwena'.Ukuba nomqashi oqondayoInkampani engiyisebenzelayo ingisekele ezikhathini eziningi ezinzima. Lapho umphathi wami wakwa-HR, u-Becky efinyelela kimi futhi ethi ufuna ukusiza ukungiqoqela imali futhi uJoey ngajabula kakhulu. Umsebenzi wami ubulokhu uguquguquka kimina njengoba beqonda ukuthi ngidinga ukuhambela imihlangano yezigwegwe eziningi, ukuqokwa esibhedlela, imihlangano emayelana nenqubekelaphambili kaJoey esikoleni kanye nokubhekana nokukhathala kokunakekela uJoey nokusebenza isikhathi esigcwele.Ukuba nenethiwekhi yosekelo eqinileBayazi futhi ukuthi nginezinselelo zokuba ubaba ongasekelwa uhulumeni futhi ovame ukulahlekelwa ohlelweni. Kodwa abangizibi, bakhona ukuze bangeseke futhi lokho kusho umhlaba kimina nomkami uCeri (umama kaJoey). Umphathi wami naye ube khona ngokungeseka okukhulu futhi nabanikazi bebhizinisi bavele bahlakaniphile. Angikwazanga ukufisa inethiwekhi yosekelo engcono. Bebelokhu bengikhona ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngakho-ke, sicela uthintane nomqashi wakho futhi nixoxe ngohambo enikulo. Ngeke babazi ubunzima uma bengabunakile. Njengoba isisho sibonisa, inkinga eyabiwe iyinkinga ehliswe ngohhafu.U-Becky uthe kimi naphezu kwezinkinga zakhe zempilo ukuthi ufuna ukusiza uJoey. Kuyangikhathaza ukuthi ngisho nomuntu obhekene nobunzima ufuna ukusiza nokweseka uJoey, kuyamangaza nje. Kuyakhombisa nje ukuthi kunabantu abahle ngempela emhlabeni. Ngakho-ke, u-Becky ugijima ama-half marathon amabili ukuze angisize ngiqongelele imali yezidingo zansuku zonke ze-Joey's Day, okokusebenza, kanye nokudlala ngezinzwa.Inkinga eyabiwe, inkinga ihliswe ngohhafu.Okubalulekile okuthathwayo kule bhulogi, ukuthi uma usebenza futhi uthola izinto ezinzima mathupha, finyelela futhi ukhulume nomqashi wakho. Futhi ungesabi ukucela usizo emndenini nakubangane. Ababona abafundi abacabangayo futhi ngeke bakwazi ukukusiza uma ungabelani ngezinkinga zakho. Bese kuthi-ke, uma unenhlanhla njengami, kuzongena umuntu ofana noBecky. Bazokunika ithemba lokuthi abantu bangaba bakhulu kangakanani. Kuyakhungathekisa impela lapho ukusekelwa okudingekayo ku-Joey kungatholakali ngokugcwele. Kodwa ukuphonsela inselelo amandla ami ekuqongeleleni imali kufaneleka kakhulu.Okuthunyelwe Ukufinyelela kumqashi wakho ukuze uthole ukwesekwa kuvele kuqala ku-Firefly Blog .************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/