Ibhulogi yakamuva ethi Siblings isilungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/siblings-2/ Ngifuna ukuqala lokhu okuthunyelwe ngokwabelana ngengcaphuno evela kumlingisi okhaliphile kanye nommeli wokukhubazeka, uSally Philips: “Izelamani zezingane ezinezidingo ezikhethekile zikhethekile. Ukwamukela ngokuphelele nothando ngokuphelele, kusukela ekuzalweni, umuntu ohlukile ngokwengqondo, futhi onendlela ehlukile yokubona umhlaba, kuyisici esimangalisayo. Kuyisici engifisa sengathi ngabe bekunenye indlela yokuyithola, kodwa ayikho.” Bekuwusuku lwe-Sibs muva nje, usuku oludalwe inhlangano esiza abantulayo i-Sibs. Sesiqale isiko emndenini wethu lapho siligubha njengosuku lomama noma lobaba. Kuqala ngebhulakufesi (oku-odwe ngaphambilini ngobusuku bangaphambi kokulala) futhi eminyakeni emibili edlule kube yimi nendodakazi yami endala siya edolobheni, eqondisa uhambo lokuthenga, ukuthenga izibiliboco nokudla kwasemini ndawonye. Ngijabule kakhulu ngokuthi siqale leli siko. Uyazi ukuthi impilo yakhe ihluke kancane kweyabangane bakhe neminye imindeni ejwayelekile kodwa uyakwamukela ngomusa onjalo. Kuzwakala kufaneleka ngathi ukuba sigubhe indima yakhe njengengane yakubo enganeni ekhubazekile, ukukhombisa ukuthi iyabonakala futhi, nakuba kuyiqiniso elibuhlungu ukuthi ukunaka kwethu akunakuhlukaniswa ngokulinganayo, ukuthi siyakubona lokho futhi simkhathalela ngokujulile. Yebo uzwakalisa (ngiyabonga ubuhle) intukuthelo yezelamani kanye nokukhungatheka njalo. Lena ingxenye enempilo kunoma ibuphi ubudlelwano bezelamani futhi ngiyajabula ngokuthi akazizwa kufanele acindezele le mizwa, ngenxa nje yokuthi udadewabo ukhubazekile. Uma ngifika kuye, ungikhumbuza ukuthi ayikho enye indlela ayazi ngayo. Yilokho abehlale ehlala nakho. Cishe ngaphandle kokuqaphela kwethu, usezakhele ezakhe izindlela zokubhekana nesimo. Ukufunda kuyinto enkulu, iMinecraft ingenye - izindawo lapho angabaleka khona aye kweminye imihlaba ekuphepheni kwekhaya lethu. Akathandi lutho ngaphandle kokwanga okunolaka kukadadewabo omncane, kodwa uyakwamukela ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi abanikezwa mahhala. Nokho, lapho begigitheka bobabili, inhliziyo yami igxumagxuma. Lamaphakethe amancane enjabulo angangiphakamisa izinsuku. Ngiyazi futhi ukuthi uhlomule ngamathuba abangani bakhe abengeke bawathole. Asikaze siye eholidini phesheya ndawonye futhi umqondo wesidlo sasemini somndeni sokuphuma noma uhambo lwasesinema awunangqondo kithi, kodwa okunye, okuhlangenwe nakho okungajwayelekile okumsize ukuba akhule. Ubonile ukuqina kwethu ezikhathini ezinzima kakhulu futhi wasibona sizolile esimweni esibucayi; usezakhele ubudlelwano nabanakekeli kanye nabasizi abakhona ekhaya nsuku zonke; usefunde ukunqoba ukwesaba izibhedlela nokukhuluma nabahlengikazi nodokotela. Waze wasisiza nokwenza ipayipi lokuphakela ngolunye usuku futhi wazizwa eziqhenya ngokufanelekile. Mhlawumbe okujule kakhulu kunakho konke okuhlangenwe nakho kokwamukela ngokuphelele othile osebenza ngendlela ehluke ngokuphelele kweyakhe. Kuyilungelo elikhulu ukubona amadodakazi ami ekhula eduze komunye nomunye, empilweni engangingakaze ngiyicabange. Okuthunyelwe Izelamani zivele kuqala ku-Firefly Blog . ************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/advice -support/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/disabilities/
