Ibhulogi yakamuva Yini oyikhumbulayo? isilungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/what-do-you-remember/ U-2020 unyaka owashintsha yonke into emhlabeni wonke. Iminyaka emibili edlule ibiyesabeka, phakathi kokuzama ukugcina imindeni ihlangene futhi iphephile ngaphandle kokwazi okusazokwenzeka noma umphumela uzoba yini. Usongo oluqhubekayo lokuthola igciwane abezokwelapha ababengazi kangako ngalo. Kepha akuyona into engicabanga ngayo ngokuyinhloko lapho abantu bekhuluma ngo-2020. Kungani u-2020 ube unyaka omubi kithina Kungani? Ngoba lowo kwakuwunyaka lapho isithuthwane ne-hydrocephalus yendodana yethu eyaphuma khona ingalawuleki. Ubecishe ahlaselwe futhi kudingeke ukuthi adluliselwe esibhedlela sezingane zesifunda izikhathi eziningi. Kwaba kubi kangangokuthi abezimo eziphuthumayo bendawo babefika bathi, “bangaki kulokhu?” bese ungisiza nje ngiye kwi ambulance. Ukubingelelwa eminyango yithimba le-resus kwakwethusa. Kwenzeke izikhathi eziningi kunalokho engikukhumbulayo. Wasuswa esibhedlela esiseduze wayiswa kwesesifunda. Babona sengathi uzodinga ukufakwa kwi-coma futhi anakekelwe e-PICU ngoba abakwazanga ukukhuphuka. Ngangicabanga ngempela ukuthi sizolahlekelwa umfana wethu oyigugu. Sasingena siphuma esibhedlela njalo futhi ngenxa yosongo lwe-covid-19 ilenga phezu kwawo wonke umuntu, kwengeze ingcindezi enkulu esimweni esinzima kakade. Kuvele ukuthi ubedinga ukubuyekezwa kwe-shunt kabili ngo-Agasti phakathi namahora angama-48 komunye nomunye bese kuba ngoNovemba. Naphezu kokuquleka okungamshiyi encishwe umoya-mpilo ebuchosheni bakhe. Wabhekana nokuhlehla okukhulu kwamakhono kanye nokwanda kobunzima bokuziphatha. I-MRI yobuchopho bakhe ayizange ibonise izinguquko, kodwa ithimba labona sengathi konke sekungaphezu kwamandla ukuba ingane evele isengozini ukubhekana nayo. Izinto seziqalile ukubukeka Wasuswa esikoleni esivamile wayiswa esikoleni esinezidingo ezikhethekile ngemva kokuba i-psychology yezemfundo ithe "usesimweni sokuhlukumezeka" futhi udinga ukunakekelwa komfundisi ngaphezu kokulethwa kwekharikhulamu. Ngokubheka emuva, ngokuqinisekile kwakuyinto engcono kakhulu eyayingayenzelwa yena. Manje useneminyaka yonke ekuleso sikole, futhi sinomuzwa wokuthi sithola umfana wethu ojabulayo! Wenza abangani, ikakhulukazi intombazanyana ekhethekile ehlezi eduze kwakhe. Ngokusobala, bayashada, nakuba ijaji lingaphandle lapho behlala khona njengoba uJakobe efuna indlu yezihlahla futhi uthando lwakhe lungathanda inqaba. Njengoba indodana yethu yayiqala ukululama, ngizizwa sengathi nami ngenza kanjalo Nginomuzwa wokuthi othisha “basanda kumthola” futhi basebenze ngohlelo lokuziphatha olulula manje oseludluliselwa nasekhaya. Wenze kahle kakhulu ngayo. Esikudingayo manje i-laminate encane ngemuva kwesihlalo sakhe esinamasondo ukuze simkhumbuze ukuthi uthola “izixwayiso” ezimbili. Okungubuso obuphuzi, ngaphambi “komphumela” wobuso obubomvu. Usenezinkinga zokuncibilika nezinzwa, kanye nezikhathi lapho “ehlukanisa khona” futhi engakwazi ukubhekana nakho. Lezi ziba mbalwa nokho futhi ngizizwa sengathi ngazi ukuthi ngingabhekana kanjani nazo kangcono. Ubonana nodokotela wengqondo esikoleni ambiza ngomngani wakhe ngoba badlala ndawonye. Umsize kakhulu! Njengoba eseqalile ukululama, nami ngizizwa ngiphole. Nakuba sibi kakhulu manje, sibonga kakhulu Siyohlale siwukhumbula unyaka ka-2020 njengonyaka ayengaphathekile kahle ngawo. Kodwa ngiyazi ukuthi izigidi zemindeni emhlabeni wonke zabhekana nokubi kakhulu kunalokho futhi zilahlekelwe abathandekayo. Sizizwa sengathi sidlule ebubini bakho manje futhi singajabulela izinto ndawonye njengomndeni wabahlanu futhi, okuyinto okufanele siyibonge kakhulu. The post Yini oyikhumbulayo? ivele kuqala ku-Firefly Blog. ************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/advice -sekela/
