Ithimba lethu liyavuma ukuthi ithiphu elilodwa elibaluleke kakhulu elobuchwepheshe obuphansi: khuluma nezingane zakho . Khuluma ngamawebhusayithi abaya kuwo, mayelana nendlela yokugwema izikhangiso/ukuheha, mayelana nendlela yokuba nenhlonipho kwabanye lapho ukhuluma ku-inthanethi, mayelana nendlela yokuphendula imibuzo yomuntu siqu evela kwabanye, futhi ngokuvamile zonke lezo zinto abantu abadala abazaziyo ngobudlelwano babantu izingane ezizenzayo. angazi okwamanje.

Izingane zingase zihlakaniphe mayelana nendlela yokusebenzisa ubuchwepheshe, kodwa abantu abadala banolwazi olunzulu mayelana nendlela yokuphatha ubudlelwano. Yakha ubudlelwano bokuthembana nezingane ngokusebenzisa ukuxhumana okuvulekile ukuze beze kuwe lapho behlangabezana nenkinga, ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngokuthi uzobavimba kubuchwepheshe babo. Lona futhi umlayezo oyisisekelo esiwunikeza izingane kusiqephu sethu Sokuphepha Kwe-inthanethi—tshela umuntu omdala omethembayo nganoma yini ehluphayo.

UDavid Harley

Encwadini ethi 'Howards End', uMargaret Schlegel ucaphuna uyise ethi 'Kungcono ukukhohliswa kunokuba usole' futhi uchaza ukuthi 'iqhinga lokuzethemba liwumsebenzi womuntu, kodwa iqhinga lokungafuni ukuzethemba liwumsebenzi usathane.'

U-Forster wayekwazi ukubona izinto kusengaphambili: 'I- Machine Stops' - eyabhalwa ngo-1909 - iphakamisa ukuthi wayengeke esamangala ngobuchwepheshe besimanje bezokuxhumana kanye nokwabelana ngolwazi - i-inthanethi, uma uthanda - kune-HG Wells. Kodwa uma yena kwadingeka wabhekana ne-inthanethi yangempela, yesimanjemanje kanye nenkundla yezokuxhumana, ngicabanga ukuthi imicabango yeqhawekazi lakhe kungenzeka ukuthi yayinengqondo. Ukuthembela ebuhleni obuyisisekelo bomoya womuntu kuyisimiso esihle, kodwa ukungabaza kuyisici esingcono sokusinda endaweni enobutha. Futhi ungalenzi iphutha, amandla e-inthanethi okungaziwa kanye negama-mbumbulu ayenza indawo lapho okungaphezu kwemali kungase kube sengozini.

Ngakho-ke, ingabe kufanele ufundise izingane zakho i-paranoia? Akunjalo: kakade sekunabantu abaningi kakhulu abesaba ukusebenzisa amakhompuyutha kanye/noma i-inthanethi ngoba abazi ukuthi ubani noma yini abangayithemba.

Engikuphakamisayo kunzima kakhulu: uku bafundise ukwethemba ukwahlulela kwabo kunokuthembela ngokuphelele kuzixazululo zobuchwepheshe kanye nezinsiza zolwazi 'ezisemthethweni' ezingqubuzanayo. Lokho kuzwakala kulula ngokwanele, kodwa kufanele futhi ubasize ukubaqondisa emasuni okuthuthukisa ukuhlaziya okunengqondo nokwahlulela, lokho ongoti bezemfundo abakubiza ngokuthi ukucabanga okujulile. Kodwa umsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ungawushiyela ongoti bezemfundo: ukusiza izingane zakho ukuthi zizisize ngokwazo kuqala ngaphambi kwe-nursery school . I-analogue yaseWild West okuyi-inthanethi ayinamthetho ezicini eziningi njenganoma iyiphi indawo yokuhlala emngceleni, kodwa abephula umthetho bayo bajabulela ithuba lokungaziwa kanye nokuqamba amanga ababengeke baphuphe ngakho izigqoko ezimnyama zase-Old West.

Nakuba ngingakukhuthazi ukunikeza izingane ezingalweni ukufinyelela ngokushesha futhi okungavinjelwe ku-cyberfrontier, kufanelekile ukuzama ukunikeza izingane isingeniso esimnene, esiqondisiwe: zikhuthaze ukuthi zizame izinto, zibuze imibuzo, futhi zihlanganyele engxoxweni eyakhayo: “Kuthi lapha ukuthi …. ucabanga ukuthi lokho kuyiqiniso ngempela?”

Futhi lapho, yebo, kukhona catch. Cabanga ngokwakho njengomfundisi , futhi njenganoma yimuphi uthisha onekhono, qiniseka ukuthi ufunda ngokwanele ukuze wenze ingane yakho ithenjwe njengothisha. Akukhona ngokuba ifonti yalo lonke ulwazi: bazofunda okwengeziwe uma, lapho uhlangabezana nenkinga, niyilungisa ndawonye. Ngisho namanje, abazali abaningi basanelisekile ngokucabanga ukuthi izingane zabo - ngisho zisezincane - zikwazi kangcono ukusebenzisa amakhompiyutha nama-software kunazo. Ngisho noma lokhu kuyiqiniso ngezinye izikhathi, njengomuntu omdala ukuhlomele kangcono kakhulu ukusebenzisa umuzwa wakho wokubhekana nezici zempilo ezingagculisi ngokuvamile empilweni ye-inthanethi. Ungaphambanisi ukubamba kobuchwepheshe nokubhekana nesimo.

Jayne A. Hitchcock

Ngitshela abazali ukuthi balalele izingane zabo futhi bangathuki uma ingane yabo izitshela ukuthi kukhona ozihluphayo ku-inthanethi, okubenza bazizwe bengakhululekile noma bachofoze isixhumanisi esiziholele engosini yocansi. Izingane nentsha ngokuvamile ziyesaba ukuthi zizojeziswa uma ziya kubazali bazo. Ngakho-ke hlala unomqondo ovulekile, lalela futhi uzame ukuxazulula isimo - akulona iphutha lengane yakho. Basize! Ungathola futhi amathiphu engeziwe kuwebhusayithi yenhlangano yami enzelwe izingane, intsha nabazali bazo kokuthi haltabusektd.org.

Aditi Jhaveri

Indlela engcono kakhulu uvikele izingane zakho ku-inthanethi? Khuluma nabo. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi lapho izingane zifuna ukwaziswa okubalulekile, eziningi zithembele kubazali bazo. Qala ingxoxo kusenesikhathi, futhi uqhubeke. Hlanganyela ngamavelu akho nokuthi asebenza kanjani kumongo we-inthanethi. Ukukhuluma ngalokho okulindele kungasiza izingane zakho zenze izinqumo ezihlakaniphile nezicabangelayo lapho zibhekene nezimo eziwubuqili.
Siza ingane yakho ukuthi ifunde ukwenza hlangana nabantu ku-inthanethi ngokuphepha:

• Khumbuza izingane ukuthi izenzo eziku-inthanethi zinemiphumela. Gcizelela ukuthi uma sebethumele okuthile, ngeke bakwazi ukukubuyisela emuva.
• Tshela izingane ukuthi zikhawulele lokho ezabelana ngakho. Basize baqonde ukuthi yiluphi ulwazi okufanele luhlale luyimfihlo - njengekheli labo, izinombolo zocingo, ulwazi lwezezimali lomndeni, inombolo Yokuvikeleka Komphakathi, njll.
• Khuthaza imikhuba ye-inthanethi. Phakamisa ukuthi Cc: futhi Phendula bonke: ngokucophelela.
• Khawulela ukufinyelela kumaphrofayela ezingane zakho. Sebenzisa izilungiselelo zobumfihlo, dala igama lesikrini eliphephile, futhi ubuyekeze uhlu lwabangane babo ukuze ufake kuphela abantu ababaziyo ngempela.

Ukuze ufunde kabanzi, bheka ividiyo yethu i-Net Cetera: Ukuxoxa Nezingane Mayelana nokuba Ku-inthanethi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungumzali, uthisha, noma ingane, ungafunda kabanzi mayelana nokuhlala uphephile ku-inthanethi ku-OnGuardOnline.gov.

UMichael Kaiser

Imayelana nendlela : Abazali kufanele balwele ukuba ozakwethu abakhuthele nezingane zabo njengoba bexhumeke ku-inthanethi. Buka ukuhlola kwabo ku-inthanethi njengethuba lokukhulisa izakhamuzi ezinhle zedijithali, ukubanika amandla ukukhombisa amakhono okucabangisisa nokubhekana nezimo ezifana nobuxhwanguxhwangu.

Iqala ngokwakha inkhulumomphendvulwano eyakhayo nezingane zakho mayelana nolwazi lwazo lwe-inthanethi. Bonisa intshisekelo ezindaweni eziku-inthanethi abazisebenzisayo futhi ufunde ngazo. Uma ingane isikhule ngokwanele ukuthi ingakwazi ukujoyina ingosi yokuxhumana nabantu, buyekeza izilungiselelo zobumfihlo nayo futhi nixoxe ngezingozi zokwabelana ngolwazi ku-inthanethi. Buza imibuzo futhi usabele ngendlela eyakhayo lapho izingane zihlangana nezinto ezingafanele. Lokhu kungaholela ezikhathini ezifundisekayo kumzali nengane.

Abazali kufanele futhi bajwayelane nezilawuli zabazali kuwo wonke amadivayisi aku-inthanethi futhi usebenzise izilungiselelo ezivumelana neminyaka yobudala ukuze uhlunge, ugade noma uvimbele imisebenzi yengane yakho. Kodwa-ke, uma kugxilwe ekugadeni nasekubekeni umkhawulo lapho ingane yakho ingena ku-inthanethi, ingase iqale ukukufihlela umsebenzi wayo, okungase kubeke ingane engozini enkulu. Ukuziphatha okuphephile ku-inthanethi kumayelana nokwenza izinqumo ezinhle, ngakho qiniseka ukuthi usekela izinqumo zabo ezinhle ku-inthanethi.

Abazali nabo kufanele babeke isibonelo esihle ngokugcina umshini uhlanzekile. Imishini yakho kufanele ibe nesofthiwe yezokuphepha yakamuva, isiphequluli sewebhu kanye nohlelo lokusebenza olufakiwe; lezi yizivikelo ezingcono kakhulu kuma-virus, uhlelo olungayilungele ikhompuyutha nezinye izinsongo ze-inthanethi. Ukuzinikela komndeni kokuzizwisa okuphephile nokuvikelekile ku-inthanethi kuqala ngawe.

Larry Magid

Buza ingane yakho ukuthi icabangani ngokuphepha, ubumfihlo nokuvikeleka. Ungababuzi imibuzo kodwa babuze ngendlela eqotho njengoba ubungakhuluma nomngane wakho omkhulu noma mhlawumbe uchwepheshe ngoba, kungenzeka ukuthi bazi okuningi ngalezi zinkinga. Abazali banomkhuba wokungazibukeli phansi izingane zabo uma kuziwa kwezokuphepha. Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi, esikhathini esiningi, izingane zinolwazi kakhulu kunalokho esikunikeze ikhredithi . Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokufaka noma yiziphi izihlungi noma isofthiwe yokuqapha noma ukuxakeka phezu kwazo zonke izinto ezingenzeka, buza izingane zakho ukuthi zicabangani . Ungathola ukuthi bazi ngaphezu kwalokho ocabanga ukuthi bakwazi futhi ungase ufunde okuthile mayelana nokuphepha kwakho ku-inthanethi, ubumfihlo kanye nokuphepha. Izingane ezincane kakhulu zidinga ukugadwa eduze nokubandakanyeka kwabazali eduze kodwa, njengoba zikhula, izingane zidinga inkululeko yokwenza kanjalo.

UChristine Marciano

Njengoba i-inthanethi iyincwadi evuliwe, abazali kudingeka bagade ubumfihlo be-inthanethi bezingane zabo njengoba “inethi ingakhohlwa” noma yini ingane engayisho, iyenze noma iyithumele ku-inthanethi. Abazali kufanele bahlole amagama ezingane zabo ku-google kanye ngenyanga futhi baxoxisane nezingane zabo nganoma yikuphi abakutholile okungalungile. Lokhu kusiza ukuvikela ukuphepha kwezingane zabo ku-inthanethi futhi kusiza ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umkhondo wazo wedijithali ngeke uzilimaze esikhathini esizayo.

Todd Morris

Ngokusekelwe ezingxoxweni eziningi namakhasimende ethu, into abazali abazabalaza ngayo kakhulu indlela yokulinganisela isidingo sabo sokwazi ukuthi izingane zabo zenzani kuyilapho bezinikeza inkululeko nokwethembeka ezikudingayo ukuze zikhule ngokomzwelo. Leyo nkinga ayikashintshi kangako ezizukulwaneni zonke – abazali bethu kanye nogogo nomkhulu babenokukhathazeka okufanayo. Kodwa imvelo yokuxhumana, ikakhulukazi phakathi kwentsha, ishintshe kakhulu eminyakeni engu-20 , kangangokuthi abazali banamuhla bazulazula endaweni yedijithali ngaphandle kwekhampasi, noma uma uthanda, ngaphandle kohlelo lokusebenza.

Esizukulwaneni esidlule, uma izingane bezisekhaya futhi zingekho ocingweni lwasendlini, zazingaxhumani nabangane bazo noma umhlaba wonke. Futhi ukuphelelwa yisikhathi ekwahluleleni yonke into eyenziwa yintsha njalo yayingenawo amandla angempela okusakazwa ngokushesha ku-Facebook, Instagram, Tumblr, Pinterest, YouTube, Twitter kanye neReddit.

Namuhla, ingane yakho eneminyaka engu-13 ubudala ingase ithumele imilayezo enecala locansi, ixhumane nabangase bahlukumeze noma ibekezelele ubuxhwanguxhwangu be-inthanethi ngenkathi ihlezi eduze kwakho esofeni. Kuyethusa, kodwa kuyiqiniso.

Ngakho yiziphi izinketho zakho? Kunezixazululo eziningi zobuchwepheshe ezisebenziseka kalula – ezilula, izindlela ezithengekayo zokuqapha umsebenzi wezingane zakho kumafoni namakhompyutha azo, ngisho nangemva kokuthi ukuxhumana kususiwe.

Uwena kuphela onganquma ukuthi lawa madivayisi ayangena yini kufilosofi yakho yobuzali, kodwa abaningi bangaphikisa ngokuthi akukhona nje kumalungelo akho njengomnakekeli ukubheka izinketho zokuqapha zentsha, kuphinde futhi isibopho sokuziphatha .

Uma ingane yakho ikhulela e-United States ekuqaleni kwekhulu lama-21, inikezwe indlela yokuzibandakanya ezingeni lokuxhumana eliyimfihlo, elingu-24/7 elingakaze libonwe emlandweni wethu. Amathuluzi okuqapha ukuthi ukuxhumana atholakala kalula. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi zikhona.

Hemanshu Nigam

Abazali bawumugqa wokuqala wokuzivikela uma kuziwa ekuvikeleni izingane ungaxhunyiwe ku-inthanethi naku-inthanethi. Njengoba nje sifuna ukudlulisela le ndima kwabanye uma kuziwa emhlabeni we-inthanethi, iqiniso liwukuthi bonke abazali bahlonyiselwe ukuba abavikeli bezingane zabo ku-inthanethi njengoba nje bengaxhunyiwe ku-inthanethi. Iningi lezimpendulo embuzweni wokuthi yini okufanele siyenze ukuze sigcine izingane zethu ziphephile ku-inthanethi zivela emhlabeni we-inthanethi. Sesiqedile - ungakhulumi nabantu ongabazi, ungalahli imininingwane yakho, ungayi endaweni ethile uwedwa, ungehli endaweni emnyama, yiba nomusa kwabanye, hlonipha, ube wusizo kowakho. abangani… futhi uhlu luyaqhubeka. Kodwa nokho, ukuntula ukuqonda ubuchwepheshe obushayela umhlaba we-inthanethi cishe kuyisizathu esisodwa esivame kakhulu esenza abazali bavame ukukubalekela ukucabanga ukuthi bangakwazi ukugcina izingane zabo ziphephile ku-inthanethi.

Ubuchwepheshe bushintshe kakhulu kule minyaka engamashumi amabili edlule kangangokuthi kunzima ukuhambisana nayo yonke intuthuko.

Ngaphambi kokuba sijikijele izandla zethu emoyeni ngokukhungatheka futhi sibe abazali abancike emuva, khumbula incwadi kaRobert Fulghum, Konke Engidinga Ukukwazi Ngempela Ngakufunda Enkulisa . Sekuyisikhathi sokuthi senze kanjalo sihlanganyele nezingane zethu futhi sibe abazali abancike phambili . Uma kukhulunywa ngobuchwepheshe, masibeke isihloko sencwadi kaFulghum kwelinye izinga– Engidinga Ukukwazi Ngempela Ngizokufunda Enkulisa Yami.

Nawa amanye amathiphu okuqalisa:

1. 1. 1. Izingane zithanda ukufundisa okuningi njengoba zithanda ukufunda. Bamba ikilasi lokufunda ubuchwepheshe njalo ngeviki lapho ungumfundi futhi ingane yakho inguthisha.
      2. Izihloko zokufunda zamasonto onke zingabandakanya:
         • Ungayisetha kanjani iphrofayela ye-Facebook nezilungiselelo zobumfihlo
         • Iyini i-Foursquare noma i-Tumblr nokuthi isetshenziswa kanjani
         • Ungayisebenzisa kanjani i-Facebook ezingxoxweni zamaqembu
         • Uzithola kanjani futhi uzifake kanjani izinhlelo zokusebenza
         • Yini i-Instagram futhi abantu benzani kuyo
         • Yini esetshenziswa wonke umuntu esikoleni
         • Idlalwa kanjani i-Club Penguin ne-Xbox Kinect neminye imidlalo
         • Yiziphi ezinye zezindlela ezimbi zokusebenzisa lezi zinhlelo zokusebenza namadivayisi
      3. Vumela izingane zakho nabangane bazo bafundise ikilasi elikhulu labanye abazali.
      4. Cela ingane yakho ngayinye ikhulume ngalokho ekuthanda kakhulu futhi okungenani mayelana nobuchwepheshe obusebenzisayo.
      5. Cela umsebenzi wesikole (Ngiyazi, lokhu kubuyisa izinkumbulo ezimbi zesikole, kodwa kuncele).
      6. Phakathi nekilasi, buza imibuzo eminingi ehlanganisa ukuphepha, ukuphepha, kanye nemibuzo yobumfihlo owazi kahle.

Lezi izindlela ezimbalwa zokukusiza ukuthi ube abazali abagcina izingane zabo ziphephile ku-inthanethi futhi zingaxhunyiwe ku-inthanethi. Futhi khumbula, abafundisi bezobuchwepheshe abahamba phambili ezweni bahlala phansi ukuze badle isidlo sakusihlwa ekhishini lakho njalo ebusuku.

John Oliver

Ingabe ufuna ukugcina ingane yakho iphephile ku-inthanethi? Ungabi intshe.

Ungangcwabi ikhanda lakho futhi ucabange ukuthi ingane yakho ngeke yenze amaphutha afanayo abangani bayo abazokwenza, futhi ungakhathazeki ngokuthi awukwazanga ukuhambisana nabo bonke ubuchwepheshe obusha.

Ukugcina ingane iphephile ku-inthanethi kuqala ngokuqaphela ukuthi (1) izoba ku-inthanethi ihlanganyele nomhlaba wonke, futhi (2) izosebenzisa amanethiwekhi omphakathi, izinhlelo zokusebenza namasevisi asetshenziswa abangani bayo. Konke lokhu kuzokwenzeka uthanda ungathandi.

Manje njengoba lokho sekuphumile, ubavikela kanjani?

Abazali abaningi ngeke bazi okwengeziwe ngazo zonke izinkonzo zewebhu ezisafufusa nazayo kunezingane zabo. Futhi ungachitha impilo yakho yonke uzama ukugcina ama-smartphones abo namasistimu emidlalo evaliwe ngokuphelele.

Okuwukuphela kwekhambi lesikhathi eside ukufundisa ingane yakho lokho konke abakwenzayo ku-inthanethi kusesidlangalaleni futhi kunomphela . Noma yini abayishoyo noma abayenzayo ku-inthanethi iwukuchofoza kanye nje ukuthi ingabonwa yiwebhu yomhlaba wonke. Futhi kuba lapho kuze kube phakade.

Izithombe ezithokozisayo namazwana ayihlazo zithathwa njengesikrini ukuze zingasakazwa ngamabhodi emiyalezo nezinkundla ze-inthanethi. Uma usufikile, okuqukethwe kukhonjwa izinjini zokusesha lapho kuzohlala khona ikusasa elibonakalayo.

Impela, ungahlala phansi nengane yakho futhi umchazele ukuthi “ungayivala kanjani” i-akhawunti yayo ye-Facebook. Ungabafundisa ukuthi “bangavikela” kanjani amaphrofayili abo e-Twitter ne-Instagram. Ungabafundisa ukuthi "bangahlunga" kanjani amavidiyo wabo we-YouTube. Kodwa lezi zici zobumfihlo empeleni zinikeza kuphela umuzwa ongamanga wokuphepha. Phela, kwenzekani lapho ifoni yabo yebiwa? Noma kwenzekani uma i-akhawunti igetshengwa? Lezi zinto zenzeka nsuku zonke.

Uma ingane yakho ibona ukuthi KONKE ekwenzayo ku-inthanethi KUSEMPHAKAMENI KANYE OKUPHAKADE lapho-ke ngeke kudingeke ukuthi ikhathazeke ngokuthi umngane wakho athumele ngephutha ingxoxo yangasese, noma ikhasi lephrofayela eligqekeziwe, noma umhlaseli waku-inthanethi. Uma bazi ukuthi banethezekile ngayo yonke into abayithumela ku-inthanethi asikho isizathu sokukhathazeka.

UDkt Mike Ribble

Ithiphu elibaluleke kakhulu kubazali engingalinikeza abazali mayelana nokugcina izingane ziphephile ku-inthanethi ukuthi khumbula ama-REP (Hlonipha, Fundisa futhi Uvikele) . Uma abazali bengadlulisa umqondo Wokuzihlonipha kanye nabanye lapho kusetshenziswa ubuchwepheshe, izinkinga zobuxhwanguxhwangu ku-inthanethi zizokwehla kakhulu.

Izingane kudingeka zikhumbule idumela lazo lapho zithumela noma yini. Izingane zidinga ukukhunjuzwa ukuthi kukhona abanye ngakolunye uhlangothi lwalowo mbhalo, okuthunyelwe noma i-Tweet. Ngokwenza lokhu izinkinga zizokwehla. Okwesibili, ukuthi izingane zidinga ukuzifundisa ukuthi ubuchwepheshe busebenza kanjani ngaphambi kokugxuma busebenzise. Wonke umuntu uzoziphephisa ubuhlungu bekhanda bokufisa ukuthi ngabe bayazazi iziqondiso ngaphambi kokusebenzisa ubuchwepheshe obusha, uhlelo lokusebenza noma inethiwekhi yokuxhumana nabantu. Izingane kudingeka zifunde ukuthi kunemithetho ethile yokuthi ukusebenzisa ubuchwepheshe kufanele nini futhi kuphi. Futhi ekugcineni, Zivikele lapho uthumela ulwazi kunethiwekhi yokuxhumana nomphakathi noma okuthunyelwe.

Uma wenza izingane zakho ziqaphele ukuthi ezikuthumela namuhla kungase kubonwe othile okungenzeka zingafuni ukukubona, kuzoba nokuncane ukukhathazeka ngomkhondo womuntu wedijithali. Izingane kufanele zifunde ukuthi kudingeka zibheke abanye lapho zisebenzisa ubuchwepheshe. Abazali badinga usizo izingane zabo zenze izinqumo ezinhle ezizigcina ziphephile futhi zisize abanye. Uma wonke umuntu esiza kule nqubo kuzoba nolwazi oluhle kuphela wonke umuntu angaziqhenya ngalo nomndeni wakhe wonke.

UDonna Rice Hughes

Ukuvikela izingane ezingozini ze-inthanethi kungase kubonakale kuwumsebenzi omkhulu kakhulu. Nakuba lingekho inhlamvu yesiliva yokugcina izingane ziphephile endaweni ebonakalayo, izindaba ezinhle ukuthi awudingi i-Ph.D. kubuchwepheshe be-inthanethi ukuze ube umzali we-cyber omkhulu. Kodwa-ke, udinga ukuzibophezela ekujwayelaneni nobuchwepheshe obusetshenziswa izingane zakho nokuhlala wazi ngezindaba zokuphepha ze-inthanethi . Umgomo wethu uwukufundisa, ukunika amandla, kanye nokuhlomisa abazali nabanye abantu abadala abakhathalelayo ngolwazi nezinsiza ezidingekayo ukuze kuvikelwe izingane ezithombeni ezingcolile zobulili eziku-inthanethi, abanukubeza ngokocansi nezixhwanguxhwangu ku-inthanethi , kanye nezingozi zokuvikeleka ku-inthanethi nobungozi obuhlobene nezinkundla zokuxhumana, imidlalo ye-inthanethi. kanye namadivayisi eselula. Ithiphu yokuphepha ebaluleke kakhulu nephelele ukusebenzisa kokubili imithetho yokuphepha kwe-inthanethi namathuluzi (Imithetho 'N Tools®) kuwo wonke amadivayisi avula i-inthanethi yengane yakho—enye ngaphandle kwenye akwanele!"

Leonie Smith

Ungalokothi unikeze idivayisi exhunywe ku-inthanethi ngaphambi kokuthi wazi ukuthi isebenza kanjani , ingane yakho ekwazi ukufinyelela kukho, nokufunda ukuthi akuphi izilungiselelo zezilawuli zabazali nezihlungi zosesho oluphephile. Izimo ezimbi kakhulu zokuhlukumeza izingane kanye nokuxhashazwa ku-inthanethi engizibonile ezenzeke ku-inthanethi namakhasimende ami eza kimi ngemuva kokuba ingane yawo ihlukunyezwe ku-inthanethi, kwenzeke ngokushesha ngemva kokuba umzali enikeze umakhalekhukhwini noma i-PC ngobumpumputhe ngaphandle kokubheka imingcele idivayisi ngayinye iza nayo. Abazali nabo babengakayibeki imingcele nengane yabo ukuze kudingeke ukuthi icele imvume ngaphambi kokulanda izinhlelo zokusebenza ezintsha.

Fundisani, bazali; iya ezingxoxweni zokuqwashisa ngeCyber ​​Safety; futhi uthole ukuthi izingane zakho zenzani ku-inthanethi nokuthi yini ongayenza ukuze uzigcine ziphephile! Ukufunda amakhono amasha kunzima, futhi yebo kuthatha isikhathi, kodwa uma ungaziniki isikhathi sokufunda nge-inthanethi ingane yakho ingase ibe nesiqephu esibi esingase siyihluphe impilo yayo yonke. Thatha isinyathelo ngaphambi kokuthi kwenzeke, futhi ungacabangi ukuthi wazi ngokwanele ukuze uzigcine ziphephile.

Teri L. Schroeder

Ithiphu elibaluleke kakhulu engingabelana ngalo nabazali ukuthi hhayi ngaphansi kokulinganisa ukuqonda kwakho komzali njengoba kuphathelene nokuphepha kwe-inthanethi kwengane yakho . Abazali abaningi namuhla bazizwa “benenselele” futhi besaba ngenxa yokuthi ingane yabo ingase yazi okwengeziwe ngobuchwepheshe kunabo. Ngikhuthaza abazali ukuthi basebenzise isiqondiso nesiqondiso esifanayo, njengoba siphathelene nokuphepha kwe-inthanethi kwezingane zabo, njengoba benza ngezingane zabo emhlabeni wangempela. Ubuchwepheshe buyimbangela enkulu yokuthi izingane zihlangana kanjani, zixhumane futhi zifunda kanjani ngokwezemfundo. Umzali angase azithole esesimeni lapho indodana/indodakazi yakhe ingase yazi okwengeziwe “ngemishini” yokuthi ungazulazula kanjani ngaphakathi kohlelo oluthile lwe-inthanethi noma uhlelo lokusebenza.

Uma umzali ezithola ekulesi simo sebenzisa lesi sikhathi ukuze ingane yakho ikufundise izinsimbi “zobuchwepheshe” ngesikhathi esisodwa ukuze unikeze indodana/indodakazi yakho amandla ngokuhlakanipha komzali okuqinile nesiqondiso sendlela ezibukwa futhi zibhekwa ngayo ku-inthanethi. Hlala ukhumbuza ingane yakho ukuthi “ingumuntu” obalulekile emhlabeni wangempela futhi lokho kuyasebenza nasemhlabeni we-cyber. Lokhu kusho ukuthi lapho bezakhela “igama” ku-inthanethi futhi babelana ngolwazi ku-inthanethi ngokuphathelene nezinto abazithandayo, abazithandayo nabangazithandi….lolu lwazi lubalulekile. Bonke abazali bakhathazekile ngokuphepha kwezingane zabo futhi okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi zibonwa kanjani abanye….emhlabeni we-inthanethi lokhu kubizwa “ngesithunzi sedijithali.” Njengabazali umsebenzi wethu wukuqondisa nokuvikela izingane zethu. Njengoba izingane zethu zikhula, futhi zizimele, isiqondiso nesiqondiso sabazali bethu nakho kuyakhula. Indlela efanayo iyasebenza ku-inthanethi nangaphandle kolayini.

Robert Siciliano

Elinye lamathiphu okuphepha abaluleke kakhulu ku-inthanethi engingakwazi ukwabelana ngalo nabazali...

Funda yonke into ingane yakho eyaziyo mayelana namadivayisi ewasebenzisayo nokunye okuningi. Iba uchwepheshe kuwo wonke amawebhusayithi abawavakashelayo futhi ujwayelane nawo wonke umuntu oxhumana naye. Ukuvumela izingane zakho zigijime mahhala kuwebhu akuhlukile kunokuzivumela ukuthi zingene ngemuva kwesondo lemoto. Udinga ukwazi ukuthi zikulungele ukuginqika ngaphambi kokuthi uzinike okhiye.

Tim Woda

Abazali kudingeka babambe iqhaza emhlabeni wedijithali wezingane zabo. Imithetho ayanele. Isofthiwe yokulawula yabazali ayanele. Kudingeka sifundise izingane zethu indlela yokusebenzisa nokujabulela ubuchwepheshe ngokuzibophezela futhi lokho kufinyelelwa kangcono ngokuzibandakanya kusenesikhathi futhi kaningi.

Abazali kudingeka badlale imidlalo futhi bahlanganyele ku-inthanethi nezingane zabo. Ngiya esikoleni ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi ngibuze, “Bangaki kini abake bagibela amabhayisikili nezingane zakho? Bangaki kini asebedlale i-dollhouse nezingane zenu?” Izandla zabazali ziya phezulu. “Bangaki kini asebedlale iMinecraft? Bangaki kini asebedlale umdlalo ku-inthanethi nezingane zenu?” Izingalo azikaze zikhuphuke. Omama nobaba badinga ukwazisa ukuthi amathoyizi obuntwana ashintshile, futhi uma befuna ukuhlanganyela kungase kuhlanganise ukuhlala ndawonye bedlala iMinecraft. Kungase kungabi yi-Monopoly.

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