Uma umshado wakho 'usemaweni' futhi ukhathazekile ngokuthi owakwakho ucabanga ukucela isehlukaniso, lesi sihloko ngesakho. Ngizochaza izimpawu ezimbalwa okufanele uzibheke ezibonisa ukuthi umyeni wakho ucabanga ngesehlukaniso, futhi ngizokutshela ukuthi ungakumisa kanjani nokuthi ungaqala kanjani ukulungisa umshado wakho.
Ngakho-ke, ake sicwilise kuphawu lokuqala ukuze sibheke...
Sayina #1 - Ukuxabana Nganoma Iyiphi Nayo Yonke Into.
Yebo, akuyona imfihlo ukuthi ukwanda kwezingxabano nokuqina kwezingxabano nomlingani wakho kuyinkomba ecacile yokuthi konke akulungile ngomshado wakho. Manje, ungathuki lapha ngenxa yokuthi wena nomngane wakho womshado nilwa izikhathi ezimbalwa ngesonto… wonke umbhangqwana oshadile uzophikisana futhi ube nezingxabano ngezikhathi ezithile, futhi empeleni kuyinto enempilo ukuxabana njalo nje uma nje behola. ezinqumweni noma ungashiyi imizwa enzima ebeleselayo.
Lapho lezo zingxabano ziba izenzakalo zansuku zonke, futhi zivame ukuvela cishe kunoma yini, yilapho-ke izinto ziba nzima kakhulu. Isibonelo, uma ufika sekwephuzile imizuzu emi-5 ngedethi yesidlo sakusihlwa kuphenduka umdlalo omkhulu wokuklabalasa futhi kubangele ukuthi nobabili nilale nithukuthele okwesithathu ngesonto, lokho kuyinkinga. Lezi zinhlobo zezingxabano, uma zenzeka kaningi futhi zivame ukukhipha izikhalazo ezincane noma ukungezwani ngendlela engafani, zingabonisa ukuthi umshado wakho uphokophele endaweni engafanele.
Isikhathi esiningi, imibhangqwana exabana kaningi kodwa ibe nemishado enempilo ingakwazi ukuyilungisa kalula le nkinga. Ngamazwi alula, uma wena nomngane wakho womshado nixabana kakhulu noma nihlale niphikisana ngezinto ezincane, kudingeka nifunde ukuvimbela izingxabano ezingenamsebenzi futhi nibe nokungezwani okubaluleke kakhulu ngendlela ephucuzekile neyakhayo.
Chofoza lapha ukuze ubuke ividiyo enhle kakhulu yamahhala enamathiphu okuthi ungaphikisana kanjani ngempumelelo (nokunye okuningi -- kufanelekile ukuyibuka). <== https://bit.ly/2rYaSXj
Manje, enye futhi inkomba eyingozi kakhulu yomshado ongenampilo yilapho oyedwa noma nobabili beyeka ukuzama ukuxazulula ukungezwani nhlobo. Okungiholela ephuzwini elilandelayo….
Sayina #2 - Awusazimisele Ukuxazulula Ukungqubuzana noma Ukuthola Izisombululo.
Uma umlingani wakho ebonakala engasenandaba nomphumela wokulwa, noma ebonakala sengathi ukuzama ukuthola isisombululo sezinkinga zakho kuyize noma akunathemba, lokho kungaba inkomba ecacile yezinkinga ezijulile. Lapho lolu hlobo lokuphelelwa ithemba luqala, umlingani wakho angase ahoxe futhi azizwe sengathi ayisoze yaba khona indlela yokuba nobabili nihlale ndawonye ngokuthula. Kusobala ukuthi akuyona into enhle leyo, futhi yinto okumele uyilungise uma lokhu sekuyinkinga emshadweni wakho.
Uphawu #3 - Ukuntuleka Kokuxhumana Kwemizwelo kanye Nokuhoxiswa Kothando.
Uma umyeni wakho esekude futhi engasakubonisi uthando, lokho kungase futhi kube inkomba eqinile yokuthi usecabanga ukuphuma emshadweni. Okuvame ukuhlotshaniswa nalokhu ukuntuleka okuphelele kokuxhumana ngokomzwelo kanye nokuntula ukuzimisela ukuxoxa noma ukukhombisa imizwa nemizwelo.
Ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwami, lesi esinye sezibonakaliso ezisobala kakhulu zokuthi umshado uphokophele endleleni engafanele. Nokho, ngokuvamile kuwuphawu kunenkinga yempande, futhi ukuxazulula izinkinga eziwumgogodla womshado wakho ngokuvamile kungasiza ekwakheni kabusha ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo futhi kuholele owakwakho ukuthi aqale ukubonisa uthando futhi.
Uma ubona lolu phawu kanye nezinye ezisohlwini, qala ukuthatha isinyathelo sokumisa ukuwohloka komshado wakho. Buka le vidiyo njengamanje ukuze ufunde mayelana namasu angu-3 azokusiza ukulungisa ubudlelwano bakho (ngisho noma umyeni wakho akanantshisekelo okwamanje). <== https://bit.ly/2rYaSXj
Uphawu #4 - Akuvamile noma ungalokothi wenze ucansi.
Ucansi lungaba wuphawu lwezinye izinkinga emshadweni wakho -- uma nihlala nilwa futhi kungekho ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo, ucansi luzoshabalala nalo.
Kodwa futhi kungaba yinkinga yakhona futhi kuholele ezinkingeni zomshado, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kudalwa ukukhangwa okufiphalayo noma ukuthanda ubulili obuphansi.
Kunoma ikuphi, umshado ongenalo ubulili cishe njalo uwumshado osesigabeni esisheshayo sokuhlukanisa, ngakho-ke uma oshade naye ebonakala engenasithakazelo ocansini noma ebeka izaba, lokho kuyinkomba ecacile yezinkinga.
Uphawu #5 - Oshade naye akabikho kaningi noma ubonakala ematasa.
Uma umlingani wakho ehlala ebusuku kakhulu, futhi ebonisa isithakazelo esincane emndenini futhi nichitha isikhathi ndawonye, lokho kungase kube inkomba yokuthi akaneme ngesimo sasekhaya. Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi bazilungiselela ngokwengqondo ukuphila ngokuhlukana, ukwakha impilo yomphakathi noma mhlawumbe nokuthandana. Ngethemba ukuthi akunjalo, futhi ungamangaleli oshade naye ngaphambi kwesikhathi ngalokhu ngoba nje behlala ekhaya kancane, kodwa kungenzeka.
Kalula nje, uma uchitha isikhathi esincane nomyeni wakho kunasesikhathini esidlule noma uma ebonakala ekude futhi ematasatasa lapho nichitha isikhathi ndawonye, lokho kungaba uphawu olucacile lokuthi umngane womshado unenkinga engokwengqondo ngesinqumo sokuthatha umhlalaphansi. aqede umshado.
Izinyathelo Ezilandelayo: Ungaya kuphi ukusuka lapha...
Okokuqala, ake sicacise into eyodwa: ngenxa yokuthi umlingani wakho ubonisa ukuziphatha okumbalwa engisanda kukhuluma ngakho akusho ukuthi ngempela uhlela ukufaka isehlukaniso. Kungase kube ukuthi lezi ziyizinkomba zezinkinga ezizayo emshadweni wenu. Kodwa uma uke wabona ezimbalwa zalezi zinkomba koshade naye muva nje, futhi unomuzwa wokuthi izinto azihambi kahle ngomshado wakho, ngikukhuthaza ukuba wenze okuthile ukuze uguqule izinto manje ngaphambi kokuba izinto zibe zimbi nakakhulu.
Indawo engcono kakhulu ongaqala ngayo iwukubuka le vidiyo yamahhala yomfundisi wezomshado u-Brad Browning... uchaza lapho ubuphambuka khona nokuthi yini okudingeka uyenze ukuze wenze umyeni wakho aphinde akuthande.
Chofoza lapha ukuze ubukele ividiyo manje, ngaphambi kokuthi yehliswe. >>> https://bit.ly/2rYaSXj
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