Siyakwamukela ku I- Verywell's Child Development Guide . Ukukhula kwezingane zakho, izidingo, nezinselele zishintsha ngokushesha njengoba iminyaka ihamba—futhi ukukhathazeka kwakho njengomzali kuthuthuka kanye nazo.
Umhlahlandlela uhlukaniswe ngeqembu lobudala:
- Izingane ezisacathula ( ezineminyaka engu -1 no-2 ubudala)
- Izingane zasenkulisa ( 3 , 4 , futhi Abaneminyaka engu-5 )
- Izingane zesikole ( 6 ), 7 , 8 , futhi Abaneminyaka engu-9 )
- AmaTweens ( 10 , 11 , futhi Abaneminyaka engu-12 )
- Intsha ( 13 , 14 , 15 , 16 , 17 , futhi Abaneminyaka engu-18 )
Uhlolojikelele
Uhlolojikelele kulo mhlahlandlela lunikeza amazwibela alokho ongakulindela esigabeni ngasinye sokukhula kwengane yakho, okuhlanganisa:
- Ukukhula ngokomzimba : Funda ukuthi umzimba wengane yakho ukhula futhi ushintsha kanjani futhi uqaphele amakhono amasha emisipha ewazuzayo eminyakeni yobudala ngayinye.
- Ukukhula kwemizwelo : Zitholele ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lwezinguquko zemizwa ingane yakho ebhekana nazo esigabeni ngasinye kanye nezigigaba zokukhula komzwelo ezihlangana nazo izingane zeqembu lobudala ngalinye.
- Ukuthuthukiswa komphakathi : Funda ngendlela izingane ezixhumana ngayo, zithuthukise ubungane, futhi zixhumane nomhlaba ozizungezile esigabeni ngasinye esibalulekile.
- Ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo : Yembula ukucabanga okujulile kanye namakhono obuhlakani athuthukiswa izingane eminyakeni yobudala ngayinye futhi ufunde mayelana nokukhula kwazo kwenkulumo nolimi, indlela ezidlala ngayo, kanye nezinyathelo ezibalulekile zokuqonda ezifinyelela kuzo.
Uzothola nokuthi ungazi kanjani ukuthi kufanele ukhathazeke nini ngokukhula kwengane yakho nokuthi yini okufanele uyenze uma ingane yakho ibonakala ingahlangabezani nezinyathelo ezibalulekile ngesikhathi.
Esigabeni ngasinye sokuthuthuka, uzothola umhlahlandlela wokuziphatha ukuze uthole imibono ebalulekile mayelana nendlela yokubhekana nezinkinga zokuziphatha okuvamile. Uzothola:
- Impatho ejwayelekile ongayilindela enganeni eqenjini ngalinye
- Izinselelo zokuziphatha okuvamile ongase uzibone enganeni eneminyaka ethile
- Amasu okujezisa asebenza kangcono ezinganeni esigabeni ngasinye
- Amasu okuvimbela izinkinga zesikhathi esizayo
- Amathiphu okuxhumana nezingane ngokusekelwe ekukhuleni kwazo
Uzothola namathiphu okuba umzali esigabeni ngasinye azokusiza ukhulise ingane ejabule, enempilo. Uzothuthukisa ukuqonda okungcono kwalokho ingane yakho ebhekene nakho esigabeni ngasinye futhi uthole izincomo zakamuva zokugcina ingane yakho iphilile. Uzofunda:
- Amasu okudla kanye nokudla okunomsoco okubhekana nabadlayo abakhethayo, ukuphaka iziphakamiso zosayizi, kanye nolwazi mayelana nokuthi yikuphi ukudla okufanele ingane yakho ikudle noma ikugweme.
- Izincomo zomsebenzi womzimba , okufaka phakathi inani lokuzivocavoca izingane ezikudingayo, imibono yomsebenzi wezingane, nezindlela umndeni wonke ongasebenza ngazo ndawonye.
- Amacebiso asekhaya angakusiza unqume imisebenzi evumelana neminyaka yobudala, indlela yokuchitha isikhathi ndawonye njengomkhaya, nezindima zezingane phakathi komkhaya.
- Udokotela uvakashela ukuhlela amashejuli okuhlolwa kwengane kahle, hlobo luni lukadokotela okufanele abonwe, izinkinga zempilo ezivamile ngokweminyaka yobudala, kanye nokugoma okunconyiwe.
- Imihlahlandlela yokulala ukuchaza ukuthi izingane zidinga ukulala okungakanani nokuthi ungakhuthaza kanjani ukulala okungcono kwezingane zakho.
- Imihlahlandlela yokuphepha namasu okugcina izingane zakho ziphephile.
- Ubuchwepheshe iseluleko sendlela yokusingatha isikhathi sesikrini kanye nendlela yokukhuluma nezingane mayelana nenkundla yezokuxhumana, i-inthanethi, nemishini kagesi
- Umhlaba wengane yakho nokuthi ungabasiza kanjani ukuphatha isikole noma inkulisa, uzulazule ebunganini obusha, ubhekane nengcindezi, futhi ubhekane neziqhwaga nezinye izinto ezingaba izingcindezi esigabeni ngasinye.
Sethemba ukuthi lo mhlahlandlela uzokusiza ukuthi umbe ujule kowakho isigaba sokukhula kwengane futhi uthole ukuqonda ukuthi yini ongayenza ukuze ukhuthaze ukukhula kwengane yakho kangcono.
