Ukulala ndawonye kuwumkhuba lapho ingane ilala nabazali bayo embhedeni. Akumangazi ukuthi ingesinye sezihloko okuphikiswana ngaso kakhulu neziyimpikiswano ezihlobene nokulala kwezingane. Ake sibone ukuthi kungani.
Abanye abantu baphikisa ngokuthi ukulala ndawonye kuyindlela elungile nengokwemvelo yokukhulisa ingane ngoba umkhuba ukhuthaza isibopho esiqinile nokunamathelana okuvikeleke kakhudlwana.
Ngokuphambene, abanye bazokutshela ukuthi ukulala ndawonye kuyingozi, kuyahlekisa, noma kuyingozi futhi abakufuni emndenini wabo.
Ngakho, iyiphi indlela ephethe iqiniso?
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ukulala ndawonye akuwona umlingo. Nakuba abanye abasekeli bombhede womkhaya bengavumelani, imibhangqwana eminingi iye yabika ukuthi izingane zabo azizange zilale ngokujulile noma isikhathi eside ngenxa yokuthi abazali bazo babeseduze. Eqinisweni, abanye abazali bathola ukuthi ingane yabo yayilala isikhathi eside futhi ingavuki njalo lapho beyeka ukulala ndawonye bese beyithuthela embhedeni wayo.
Kodwa-ke, ukuthi imindeni ikhetha ukulala ndawonye noma ukuba izingane zabo zilale ngokuzimela kuyisinqumo somuntu siqu, futhi uma bobabili abazali nengane bephephile, bephumulile, futhi banelisekile, khona-ke ukulala ndawonye akuyona into yokukhathazeka ngakho.
Uma unquma ukulala ndawonye, lokhu kuzibophezela kudinga ukucabanga ngokucophelela ngalokho wena nomngane wakho womshado eninomuzwa wokuthi kulungile kuwe njengabantu ngabanye, njengombhangqwana, futhi njengomndeni.
Zibuze imibuzo elandelayo:
- Ingabe kuhle ukucabanga ngokujabulela ukunethezeka kokulala eduze, noma ingabe oyedwa noma abaningi bethu bavame ukuhlala bematasa ngesikhathi sokulala - okungase kuphazamise abanye?
- Ingabe wonke umuntu emndenini wethu ufuna ukulala ndawonye, noma ingabe sincike kukho ngoba omunye wethu uzizwa enamandla?
- Ingabe sizimisele ukuzibophezela ekuthuleni ngemva kokuba ingane yethu ilele, noma sithanda ukubukela i-TV noma ukukhuluma embhedeni?
- Ingabe sizokujabulela ukukwazi ukondla ingane yethu kaningi ubusuku bonke, noma ingabe ukuba nayo eduze kwethu kuyokwenza kube nzima ukulumula ukudla ebusuku?
- Ingabe siyavuma ukungena embhedeni lapho ingane yethu ingena, ukuze siqinisekise ukuphepha kwayo?
- Kubazali abasebenzayo, ingabe ukulala eduze kwengane yethu kusivumela ukuba sizizwe sixhumene naye ngokwengeziwe?
Njengoba kulindelekile, ukulala ndawonye kunakho kokubili okuhle nokubi.
Ake sizibhekisise.
Izinzuzo:
- Ukusondelana njalo noma nini lapho ingane ivukile. Izingane nabazali abaningi bayawujabulela lo muzwa.
- Isenzo esisheshayo nokwesekwa kwanoma iyiphi inkinga ehlobene nokulala
- Ikhono lokuncelisa nokuphendula kokunye ukuvuka ebusuku ngaphandle kokuvuka
- Isikhathi esiningi ongasichitha nengane
- Kungenzeka ukulala kangcono kokubili kwengane nabazali, uma ingane ingalali kahle kwasekuqaleni
Ububi:
- Abazali bangase bangalali kahle uma izingane zabo zingalali kahle
- Abazali bangase bagcine sebelala emakamelweni ahlukene, futhi bangase bathukuthelele ingane yabo noma omunye nomunye
- Imijikelezo yokulala yezingane kanye neyabantu abadala ayihlangani
- Abazali kungase kudingeke balale nezingane zabo kusesekuseni kakhulu futhi bashiywe benesikhathi esincane sezinto zabo zakusihlwa.
- Abazali banemfihlo encane
- Kungase kube nokwenyuka okuncane engcupheni enganeni evela ku-SIDS kanye nezimbangela ezihlobene.
Isinqumo sokulala ndawonye kufanele kube ngesakho, esenziwe umzali - noma abazali - futhi sisekelwe kumafilosofi akho siqu, hhayi ekucindezelweni kwengane yakho noma omunye umuntu. Okuhlangenwe nakho okuhle noma okubi komunye umndeni ngokulala ndawonye akufanele kube nomthelela esinqumweni sakho: ingane yakho ihlukile futhi umndeni wakho awufani.
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