Kungani ingane yami inamahloni?
Ochwepheshe bakholelwa ukuthi kokubili izakhi zofuzo nendawo ezungezile kunomthelela ekubeni namahloni kwengane. Ezinye izingane zizalwa zinomuzwa ophakeme wokugqugquzelwa ngaphandle. Indawo ezungezile iqala ukusebenza lapho amahloni engane yakho ehlangana nezinto ezingezinhle, njengokugconwa noma ukukhishwa inyumbazane ezinye izingane, ukuhlazeka, noma ukuntula isiqinisekiso ingane enamahloni edingayo.
Ngingamkhuthaza kanjani umfundi wami onamahloni?
Yiba yisibonelo.
Qiniseka ekuhwebeni kwakho nabathengisi, buza imibuzo efanele kontanga, futhi ubheke abantu ongabazi.
Qaphela ama-trigger.
Ingane ephoqwe kanzima kakhulu ezifundweni, ngokwesibonelo, ingase ikhala ngoba yesaba ukwehluleka. Uma kunjalo, khululeka kulokho okulindele esikoleni.
Prakthiza izimo ezinzima.
Cabangela izimo zokulingisa ezenza ingane yakho yethuke. Angase agigitheke futhi acabange ukuthi kuwubulima ukuzilolongela ukubingelela ephathini yosuku lokuzalwa noma ukuzethula eqenjini lebhola likanobhutshuzwayo, kodwa futhi uzoqala ukuzizwa eqiniseka ngokwengeziwe ngekhono lakhe lokuhlangana nabantu.
Enye indlela: Cela ingane yakho ukuba ikhulume ngokwesaba kwayo “ukube” ngesenzakalo. Khona-ke nindawonye ningabonisana ngezindlela zokuxazulula ngakunye kokumkhathazayo. Ungase futhi ukhumbuze ingane yakho ukuthi kuvamile ukukhathazeka lapho uqala ikilasi elisha noma uhlangana nabantu abasha. Ukuze uqinisekise imizwa yakhe, zama ukuchaza esinye sezikhathi zakho eziphazamisekile.
Thola i-niche.
Uma esebonile ukuthi unesiphiwo, ukuzethemba kwakhe kuzokhula kanye nomdlandla wakhe. Uma elalela zonke iziphakamiso zakho, ungayiphoqi indaba. Qhubeka uphonsa imibono, futhi ekugcineni uzothola okufaneleka.
Yazi ukuthi uzohlehla nini.
Kunomugqa omuhle phakathi kokusiza ingane yakho ukuba ibhekane ngokuphumelelayo nokumhlupha ngamathiphu angapheli okuthi ungaba kanjani nokuxhumana okwengeziwe. Kungase futhi kusize ukuzikhumbuza ukuthi isimo sengqondo somntanakho asibonisi amakhono akho okukhulisa izingane.
Uma nje enabangane abathile, ejabule ngokunengqondo, futhi ekwazi ukusebenza njengomfundi nelungu lomndeni, konke kusahamba kahle. Mncome ngemizamo yakhe yokuba nomphakathi, unikeze izeluleko lapho ebuzwa, futhi ukushiye kanjalo.
Yini engalungile ngokubiza ingane yami ngokuthi inamahloni?
Akukho lutho olungalungile ngokuba namahloni, kodwa akuvamile ukuba kusize ukubiza ingane, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ilebula elifaka ingcindezi engadingekile kuye (ngokwesibonelo, “isiphiwo,”) noma elichaza ukuziphatha kwayo (“O, unamahloni nje.”) . Angase angaziboni enamahloni, kodwa uma ekuzwa kaningi ngokwanele uzokholelwa.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ingane yakho ingase ingawaboni amahloni njengesithiyo. Kodwa uma ukhuluma ngakho njengokungathi kuyinkinga, angase acabange ukuthi kukhona okungalungile kuye. Uma kwenzeka unomuzwa wokuthi udinga ukuchaza ukuziphatha kwakhe, cabanga ukuthi, “Uthanda ukuthatha isikhathi sakhe ezimweni ezintsha,” esikhundleni sokumchaza njengomuntu onamahloni. Kubalulekile ngokufanayo ukukhuthaza izihlobo, abangani bomndeni, nothisha ukuthi bangamlebuli.
Uma ingane yakho isivele ibhalwe ukuthi inamahloni, zama ukulungisa isimo sayo ngokumvumela ezwe okuthile okuhle. Lapho elalele, xoxani ngokuthi useze waba nobungane kangakanani, noma uphikise ngomzamo othile awenzile wokuba nomphakathi. Kungase kumsize ukumkhumbuza ukuthi ezinye zezimfanelo ezihlobene nokuba namahloni, njengokuqapha, ukucophelela, kanye namathuba amancane okugxumela ezimweni ezintsha ngaphandle kokucabanga ngemiphumela, ziyizici ezinhle okumelwe zibe nazo.
Ingabe ingane yami enamahloni idinga usizo lochwepheshe?
Amahloni kufanele abe yiqhubu emgwaqeni, angabi isivimbamgwaqo. Cishe kuzothatha usizi kanye nezinyathelo ezingelona iqiniso, kodwa ngisho nezingane ezinamahloni zingakwazi ukufunda ukwakha ubudlelwano futhi zibhekane nokuba semkhankasweni wezikhathi ezithile. Bangase babe nabangane abambalwa kunezinye izingane, kodwa lobo bungane buyoba obuseduze.
Nokho, ingane yakho efunda ibanga leshumi ingase idinge usizo lochwepheshe uma inamahloni kangangokuthi iqala ukugwema konke ukuxhumana, noma uma ukhathazekile ngokuthi amahloni engane yakho aphazamisa ikhono layo lokusebenza ekuphileni kwayo kwansuku zonke. Khuluma nomeluleki wesikole wengane yakho noma umhlinzeki wokunakekelwa kwezempilo, ongaphakamisa ukuhlolwa kokuthuthuka.
