Izibusiso Zezingane Ezintsha

The Blessings of New Babies - 4aKid
Bonke omama nobaba abakhulelwe banezinkathazo. Ukufuna isiqinisekiso sokuthi konke kuzolunga kuyinto evamile. Njengodokotela wezingane iminyaka engaphezu kwamashumi amathathu, ukuzwa imibhangqwana emisha ibuza ngokuzwakalayo ukuthi izophumelela yini emsebenzini wokuba umzali yinto engiyilindele. Eqinisweni, i-modicum of angst ikhombisa kimi ukuthi bathatha izibopho zabo zesikhathi esizayo ngokungathi sína. Kodwa izinkathazo zabazoba omama nobaba banamuhla manje sezifinyelele izinga eliphezulu, okubonisa umhlaba we-helter-skelter sonke esiphila kuwo.

Abekho abazali abaphelele

Ukuphila namuhla kubonakala kugcwele ukungaqiniseki nokungalondeki okwengeziwe kubazali abasebasha. Impilo nayo ibonakala iza kithi ngokushesha futhi ngokushesha. Sigcwele ukwaziswa okungqubuzana kakhulu kunalokho esingakwazi ukukuhlunga noma ukugaya. Ngokwezimali, nathi siphonselwa inselelo. Imindeni eminingi idinga amaholo amabili ukuze nje iphile, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, umhlaba ubukeka njengendawo eyingozi kakhulu yokuhlala kuyo, ingasaphathwa eyokukhuliswa kwezingane. Kuvamile ukuqapha kulezi zikhathi, kodwa abaningi abazali namuhla babonakala benendathane yokuqapha, befuna ukuphelela, nesidingo sezinhlelo ezingaphumeleli zokunciphisa zonke izinto eziguquguqukayo. Imibhangqwana esanda kukhulelwa isondela ekubeni umzali njengekilasi lasekolishi elinomsebenzi wesikole wesikole, izivivinyo zokugcina, futhi akukho gumbi lokunyakazisa amaphutha. Benza konke okusemandleni abo ukukulungisa ukuze bakwazi ukuphumelela ukuhlolwa komzali. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, banethemba lokuba omama nobaba “abaphelele,” kodwa njengoba sazi sonke, abantu abanjalo abekho emhlabeni wethu. Nansi imfihlo yami yokuqala, ethathwe eminyakeni eminingi njengomzali nomkhulu: cha. kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izwe linjani namuhla, ubumnandi nezinjabulo ezingapheli ezilethwa izingane ekuphileni kwabazali zisekhona ukuze zijatshulelwe. Akukho okuhle okuye kwancipha, nokwaneliseka akusekho. Isiko lanamuhla lizama ukuhlehlisa abantu abasha ekhoneni, kodwa akudingeki baye lapho. Qala ngokubhoboza bese uqaqa iveyili ehlala idingeka, ethanda izinto ezibonakalayo ebukeka ibe nkulu phezu kwamakhanda ethu. Nquma ukugcina izinto zilula. Ukuba ngumzali kuyilungelo lakho lokuzalwa, ngakho-ke ungavumeli imali, ukuhambisana nabanye, noma izinselelo zempilo yansuku zonke zikuphazamise.

Iqiniso mayelana nokuba umzali

Ukuthatha isinqumo sokuba nengane...

Kuyingqophamlando. Kuwukunquma unomphela ukuba inhliziyo yakho ihambe izungeza ngaphandle komzimba wakho. -Elizabeth Stone, uthisha, umbhali kanye nentatheli
Ezinye izifundo zobuzali engizifundile ngokwenza izinto ezingalungile. Ukukhipha amakhadi endodakazi yami eneminyaka engaphansi kowodwa akuzange kuyibeke endleleni yokuba isheshe ifunde. Ukufuna ukuthi zonke izingane zami zifunde ukudlala ivayolini, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zazizizwa kanjani ngayo, akuzange kusebenze kahle kangako. Ngeke ngiqhubeke.Ngifunde okuningi futhi kubazali abamangalisayo nabathembisene umshado izingane zabo engiye ngaba nokuhlonishwa ukuzinakekela. Ngifunde kobaba abafundisa izingane zabo indlela yokubamba ibhola eliphansi nokubhukuda, kwabanye abazali (abagangayo nabahlanyayo) abaye bathatha izingane zabo ohambweni oluhle njengokuvakashela zonke izifundazwe ezingamashumi amahlanu eholidini elilodwa elandisiwe lasehlobo, komama abakhuphukayo. Kilimanjaro namadodakazi abo asanda kweva eshumini nambili, kanye nabanye abavakasha nezingane zabo ezindlini ezikude ezingenawo amathelevishini noma izingcingo. Isibalo sabazali abahle kakhulu engibaziyo nengibaziyo sikhulu. Bangabantu abanothando abathuthukise ukuqonda kwami ​​ukuthi umzali onempilo nonothando ubukeka kanjani.

Uhambo olulindile

Isibopho sami sokuqala ukunazisa ukuthi labo asebezoba nengane basethubeni lokuthandana nomuntu angamazi nhlobo . . . umuntu ongakaze uhlangane naye ngaphambili. Ngakho, bomama nobaba, qaphelani! Lolu thando olujulile nolunenjabulo luzokunyonyobela futhi likumangaze.

Abazali benziwa ukuthanda

Nginabazali abeza nsuku zonke ehhovisi lami futhi babelane nami, ngaphandle kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo lokuncenga egameni lami, uthando olujulile nolungalindelekile abaluzwayo ezinganeni zabo ezisanda kuzalwa. Kungumzwelo ohlukile kunoma yini abake bayazi. Bakhuluma ngale mizwa njengokungathi bangenwe umfokazi, amandla angaphandle, kodwa isuka ekujuleni kwabo. Le mizwa abazali abasha abayizwayo ijulile ngempela, kodwa ayisekelwe emizweni yokulangazelela noma engahleliwe, futhi ayisekelwe emizweni engahleliwe. benza imilingo. Iwukususelwe ezinguqukweni ezifihlekile zomzimba ezenzeka ngaphakathi kohlaka lwethu lomuntu.Komama, le mizwa iwumphumela wamahomoni abangela izinguquko zangempela zomzimba, zesakhiwo ebuchosheni futhi enze okuhlangenwe nakho kokuba ngumama kufiseleke ngendlela emangalisayo futhi kujabulise kakhulu.

Izinkathazo ziyaphela ngokumangala kwakho konke

Akekho ongasichaza ngokwanele isimangaliso sokwamukela umntwana emhlabeni. Ibalwa njengenye yeqiniso elithi "Wow!" Izikhathi zokuphila zisinika thina bantu abafayo futhi kusishiya sinkemile. Abazali balaba bantu abancane babusiswa nakakhulu ngoba, ngenkathi benakekela ingane yabo futhi betshalwe ngokuphelele futhi becwile kule nqubo, banolwazi lwezinye izenzakalo eziningi eziphawulekayo ezembulekayo ngamunye. futhi nsuku zonke phambi kwamehlo abo. Kusukela ezihlalweni zabo ezingaphambili, abazali babona ama-muffin abo amasha, asanda kuzalwa ephuma futhi eshintsha ebuntwaneni bawo bokuqala abe ukubhibhidla, ukuhamba, ukufiphala komsebenzi wojahidada. Unyaka wokuqala okhazimulayo! Futhi kumane kuyisiqalo salokho okulindelwe omama nobaba abathandana kakhulu.

Lesi siqephu esithathwe kumbhali u-Robert C. Hamilton, MD's 7 Secrets of the Newborn: Secrets and (Happy) Surprises of the First Year. UDkt. Hamilton uyiLungu Lebhodi le-HelpGuide.org International. Igcine ukubuyekezwa: Januwari 2019.

Umthombo: https://www.helpguide.org/

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