Abekho abazali abaphelele
Ukuphila namuhla kubonakala kugcwele ukungaqiniseki nokungalondeki okwengeziwe kubazali abasebasha. Impilo nayo ibonakala iza kithi ngokushesha futhi ngokushesha. Sigcwele ukwaziswa okungqubuzana kakhulu kunalokho esingakwazi ukukuhlunga noma ukugaya. Ngokwezimali, nathi siphonselwa inselelo. Imindeni eminingi idinga amaholo amabili ukuze nje iphile, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, umhlaba ubukeka njengendawo eyingozi kakhulu yokuhlala kuyo, ingasaphathwa eyokukhuliswa kwezingane. Kuvamile ukuqapha kulezi zikhathi, kodwa abaningi abazali namuhla babonakala benendathane yokuqapha, befuna ukuphelela, nesidingo sezinhlelo ezingaphumeleli zokunciphisa zonke izinto eziguquguqukayo. Imibhangqwana esanda kukhulelwa isondela ekubeni umzali njengekilasi lasekolishi elinomsebenzi wesikole wesikole, izivivinyo zokugcina, futhi akukho gumbi lokunyakazisa amaphutha. Benza konke okusemandleni abo ukukulungisa ukuze bakwazi ukuphumelela ukuhlolwa komzali. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, banethemba lokuba omama nobaba “abaphelele,” kodwa njengoba sazi sonke, abantu abanjalo abekho emhlabeni wethu. Nansi imfihlo yami yokuqala, ethathwe eminyakeni eminingi njengomzali nomkhulu: cha. kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izwe linjani namuhla, ubumnandi nezinjabulo ezingapheli ezilethwa izingane ekuphileni kwabazali zisekhona ukuze zijatshulelwe. Akukho okuhle okuye kwancipha, nokwaneliseka akusekho. Isiko lanamuhla lizama ukuhlehlisa abantu abasha ekhoneni, kodwa akudingeki baye lapho. Qala ngokubhoboza bese uqaqa iveyili ehlala idingeka, ethanda izinto ezibonakalayo ebukeka ibe nkulu phezu kwamakhanda ethu. Nquma ukugcina izinto zilula. Ukuba ngumzali kuyilungelo lakho lokuzalwa, ngakho-ke ungavumeli imali, ukuhambisana nabanye, noma izinselelo zempilo yansuku zonke zikuphazamise.Iqiniso mayelana nokuba umzali
Ukuthatha isinqumo sokuba nengane...
Kuyingqophamlando. Kuwukunquma unomphela ukuba inhliziyo yakho ihambe izungeza ngaphandle komzimba wakho. -Elizabeth Stone, uthisha, umbhali kanye nentatheliUhambo olulindile
Isibopho sami sokuqala ukunazisa ukuthi labo asebezoba nengane basethubeni lokuthandana nomuntu angamazi nhlobo . . . umuntu ongakaze uhlangane naye ngaphambili. Ngakho, bomama nobaba, qaphelani! Lolu thando olujulile nolunenjabulo luzokunyonyobela futhi likumangaze.Abazali benziwa ukuthanda
Nginabazali abeza nsuku zonke ehhovisi lami futhi babelane nami, ngaphandle kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo lokuncenga egameni lami, uthando olujulile nolungalindelekile abaluzwayo ezinganeni zabo ezisanda kuzalwa. Kungumzwelo ohlukile kunoma yini abake bayazi. Bakhuluma ngale mizwa njengokungathi bangenwe umfokazi, amandla angaphandle, kodwa isuka ekujuleni kwabo. Le mizwa abazali abasha abayizwayo ijulile ngempela, kodwa ayisekelwe emizweni yokulangazelela noma engahleliwe, futhi ayisekelwe emizweni engahleliwe. benza imilingo. Iwukususelwe ezinguqukweni ezifihlekile zomzimba ezenzeka ngaphakathi kohlaka lwethu lomuntu.Komama, le mizwa iwumphumela wamahomoni abangela izinguquko zangempela zomzimba, zesakhiwo ebuchosheni futhi enze okuhlangenwe nakho kokuba ngumama kufiseleke ngendlela emangalisayo futhi kujabulise kakhulu.Izinkathazo ziyaphela ngokumangala kwakho konke
Akekho ongasichaza ngokwanele isimangaliso sokwamukela umntwana emhlabeni. Ibalwa njengenye yeqiniso elithi "Wow!" Izikhathi zokuphila zisinika thina bantu abafayo futhi kusishiya sinkemile. Abazali balaba bantu abancane babusiswa nakakhulu ngoba, ngenkathi benakekela ingane yabo futhi betshalwe ngokuphelele futhi becwile kule nqubo, banolwazi lwezinye izenzakalo eziningi eziphawulekayo ezembulekayo ngamunye. futhi nsuku zonke phambi kwamehlo abo. Kusukela ezihlalweni zabo ezingaphambili, abazali babona ama-muffin abo amasha, asanda kuzalwa ephuma futhi eshintsha ebuntwaneni bawo bokuqala abe ukubhibhidla, ukuhamba, ukufiphala komsebenzi wojahidada. Unyaka wokuqala okhazimulayo! Futhi kumane kuyisiqalo salokho okulindelwe omama nobaba abathandana kakhulu.
