Ukukhulelwa kungenye yohambo olujabulisa kakhulu ozolwazi empilweni, kodwa kungase futhi kuzwakale njengolunye olukhungathekisa kakhulu.
Kusukela ezincwadini ezeluleka imindeni nasezincomo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kuya ohlwini olungapheli lwemikhiqizo yezingane, kuvame ukuzwakala sengathi kunezinto ezingamakhulu okufanele uzicabangele ngaphambi kokuba ingane yakho ifike. Abazali abaningi abakhulelwe bazithola bezibuza ukuthi benza okwanele yini, bathenga izinto ezifanele yini, noma balungiselela ngendlela efanele yini lokho okuzayo.
Iqiniso liwukuthi ukulungiselela ukukhulelwa akumele kwenzeke ngasikhathi sinye.
Enye yezindlela ezilula zokunciphisa ingcindezi ukugxila kulokho okubaluleke kakhulu esigabeni ngasinye sezinyanga ezintathu. Ukukhulelwa ngokwemvelo kwenzeka ngezigaba, futhi ukulungiselela kwakho kungalandela leso sikhathi.
Esikhundleni sokuzama ukwenza yonke into ngokushesha, indlela esekelwe ezigabeni zezinyanga ezintathu ikuvumela ukuthi ubeke phambili imisebenzi, wenze izinqumo ezinolwazi futhi uzizwe uqiniseka kakhulu njengoba usuku lwakho lokubeletha lusondela.
Phakathi nesigaba sokuqala sezinyanga ezintathu, abazali abaningi bagxila ekuqinisekiseni ukukhulelwa, ukuya emihlanganweni yokuqala nokufunda ngezinguquko ezenzeka emzimbeni. Lesi sigaba sivame ukugcwele injabulo, imibuzo nokuzivumelanisa njengoba iqiniso lokukhulelwa liqala ukungena.
Lapho sekufika isigaba sesibili sezinyanga ezintathu, abazali abaningi baqala ukuzizwa benamandla futhi bekulungele ukucabanga ngesikhathi esizayo. Lokhu ngokuvamile kuba yisikhathi lapho kuqala khona ukuhlela okungokoqobo. Kusukela ekucwaningeni ngezinsiza zezingane kuya ekuhloleni izinketho zokunakekelwa kwezingane nokulungiselela izindawo zokuhlala, lesi sigaba sivumela imindeni ukuba yakhe isisekelo esiqinile ngaphambi kokuba kuqale isikhathi sokugcina.
Ngesikhathi sokugcina sezinyanga ezintathu, ukunaka ngokuvamile kushintshela ekulungiseleleni ukubeletha, amalungiselelo esibhedlela kanye nalawo mininingwane yokugcina esiza abazali bazizwe bekulungele ukufika komntwana wabo. Kuyisikhathi futhi lapho imindeni eminingi iqala khona ukugxila ekulungiseleleni ngokomzwelo nokuzivumelanisa nomqondo wokuthi impilo isizoshintsha unomphela.
Ubuhle bohlelo lokukhulelwa olusekelwe ezigabeni zezinyanga ezintathu ukuthi bususa ingcindezi yokwenza yonke into ngesikhathi esisodwa. Esikhundleni sokuzizwa bekhungathekiswe uhlu olukhulu, abazali bangagxila ezintweni ezibalulekile ezihambisana nesigaba sabo sokukhulelwa kwamanje.
Kusiza futhi ekuvimbeleni amaphutha avamile njengokuthenga izinto ezingadingekile kusenesikhathi, ukubambezela izinqumo ezibalulekile kuze kube umzuzu wokugcina noma ukukhungatheka yizeluleko ezingqubuzanayo.
Ukukhulelwa ngakunye kuhlukile, futhi umndeni ngamunye uzoba nezidingo eziyingqayizivele. Okusebenzela umuntu oyedwa kungase kungasebenzeli omunye. Ukuba nesakhiwo esiguquguqukayo kungasiza abazali ukuba bahlale behlelekile ngaphandle kokuzizwa bekhawulelwe.
Okubaluleke kakhulu, indlela ehlelekile idala indawo yokujabulela okuhlangenwe nakho. Ukukhulelwa akusona nje isikhathi sokulungiselela. Kuyisahluko esiyingqayizivele okufanele sijatshulelwe, sigujwe futhi sikhunjulwe.
Uma wake wazizwa ukhungathekiswe yiyo yonke into ehambisana nokulungiselela umntwana, indlela yesigaba ngasinye sezinyanga ezintathu ingaba yilokho okudingayo. Kusiza ekuguquleni inqubo ethusayo ibe yizinyathelo ezilawulekayo ezakha ukuzethemba njengoba usondela ekuhlangane nengane yakho encane.
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