Ibhulogi yakamuva Umshayeli webhasi, isifundo sempilo kanye nesenzo somusa esingahleliwe silungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/a-bus-driver-a-life-lesson-and- isenzo-somusa esingahleliwe/ UJenson oneminyaka eyishumi ubudala, uthanda amabhasi. Usuku alupheli ngaphandle kokuthi ibhasi lakhe lithathekile ngandlela thize. Uzobuka amabhasi ngenjabulo ku-YouTube amahora amaningi. Unamashadi okuklomelisa anezihloko zebhasi esikoleni nasekhaya. Othisha bakhe basebenzisa izinombolo zamabhasi ukumfundisa izibalo, kanye nokukhangisa kwamabhasi 'okunobuciko' ukuze bamsize ekufundeni kwakhe. Ngempelasonto, sivame ukutholakala emigwaqweni yethu yasendaweni ephakeme, ukubona amabhasi, ukugibela amabhasi, sihlezi ezitobhini futhi sikhuluma nabashayeli bamabhasi. Nakuba umfowabo omncane kanye nobaba bechitha zonke izimpela sonto bedlala ibhola likanobhutshuzwayo futhi begibele amabhayisikili, yena kanye nami sichitha izimpelasonto eziningi emabhasini, noma eduze kwawo. Ngempelasonto edlule ayizange ihluke. Mina noJenson sasilenga endaweni ayeyithanda kakhulu emgwaqweni omkhulu, sinquma ukuthi siqhubeke sibukele noma sithathe uhambo. Intandokazi entsha kaJenson, inombolo engu-23, yasukuma, futhi umshayeli webhasi wehla ebhasini ukuze athathe ikhefu elincane. Wayengomunye walabo bantu okuthi njengomzali, uzizwe ukhululekile ngaso leso sikhathi, wahlanganyela noJenson futhi waxoxa ngamabhasi. Wabe esememela uJenson ebhasini lakhe elingenalutho ukuze 'ahlole izinsimbi' uJenson azibophezele kuzo ngenjabulo, kulandele ukuhlala ekhumbini yomshayeli. UJenson wayejabule, njengami. Usuku kwakungeSonto mhla ziyi-13 kuLwezi, futhi ngalolo suku ekuseni, umphakathi wendawo wawuhlele umbukiso weSonto Lokukhunjulwa emgwaqeni omkhulu, owawuhlanganisa nokuthula kwemizuzu emibili. Umshayeli wangibuza ukuthi sasisanda kuhlanganyela, ngaphendula ngokuthi cha. Ngachaza ukuthi uJenson ukuthola kunzima ukuthula; akakwazi ukucubungula umyalelo, futhi akaqondi ubunzima besenzakalo. Ngakho-ke ngivame ukugwema izikhathi ezinjalo, ngenxa yokwesaba ukudonsa ukunaka okungalungile ngenxa yokuziphatha kwakhe okungafanele. Umshayeli webhasi wabe esengimangaza ngempela, ngokubukeka kwakhe okungaqondakali okwavela ebusweni bakhe, namazwi akhe alandela. Ebabaza “Ini!! Kungani kungenjalo?!". Ngamangala, futhi ngazama ukuphinda lokho engangikushilo ngaphambili ukuze ngithethelele izizathu zami. Waphikelela: “Lokhu kuyahlanya!”. Kumelwe ngichaze kuleli phuzu, ukuthi naphezu kwamazwi akhe ahlabayo naqondile, umngane wethu omusha ngokusobala wayeyindoda emnene, ekhathalelayo. Nakuba ayengibekela inselele, izinhloso zakhe zafakazelwa ngokusobala inkolelo yokulingana nokungakhethi, njengoba kwaboniswa yilokho okwaphuma emlonyeni wakhe kamuva. “Ubani onendaba nokuthi umhlaba ucabangani? Umhlaba udinga ukufunda kabanzi mayelana nokwehluka. Ubani onendaba uma engathuli nje ngoba bekutshela ukuthi thula? Umhlaba udinga ukuqonda futhi wamukele umehluko. Umhlaba udinga ukuqonda okwengeziwe, futhi badinga abantu abafana nawe noJenson ukuze bababonise”. Ngizwe sengathi ngitshelwa uthisha omkhulu, ngavele ngaxakwa ukuthi ngizothini. Ngavuma ngobuqotho ukuthi ngavumelana naye, kodwa ngisenenkinga yokuba nesibindi sokusebenzisa lokhu, ngenxa yezibonelo eziningi zokunaka okungekuhle esiye sakudonsa ezikhathini ezidlule ezimweni ezifanayo. Kuleli qophelo, bekuyoba lula ukukhombisa futhi siphethe ngokuthi akekho oqonda usuku empilweni yomzali onjengami, ngaphandle uma uhamba kulezo zicathulo. Nokho, bekunokuthile mayelana nebhasi lami elisha engihamba nalo namuhla, okungenze ngama futhi ngacabanga. Enganelisekile ngezimpendulo zami, umshayeli webhasi waqhubeka nokunginikeza inkulumo eqinile; ukungikhuthaza ukuthi ngingabi nandaba ngabanye abantu. Iphimbo lakhe lalinomusa, kodwa liqinile, linomuzwa nozwelo. Ngemva kwemizuzu engaba mihlanu, ikhefu lakhe lase liphelile, futhi into elandelayo engazi ukuthi wayesingenisa ebhasini ukuze sihlale ezihlalweni eziseduze nendawo engaphambili. Waqhumisa injini, wamemeza wathi “Asihambe siyogibela”, sabe sesihamba! Ngaphambi kokuthi ngithole ithuba lokuphikisa, besithatha uhambo lwemizuzu engama-20 ukuya nokubuya ukuya e-terminus nokubuya. Njengoba ngangingazazi izenzo ezinjalo zomusa ezingahleliwe, ngamangala kodwa ngasheshe ngakhululeka ohambweni lwethu lwenganekwane, nomshayeli exoxa, noJenson exoxa ephendula, okwajabulisa kakhulu abanye abagibeli. Ngathatha isikhashana ukuze ngijabulele injabulo kanye nesasasa uJenson ayenalo, futhi ngazithola sengikhulumela phezulu nangenjabulo noJenson, njengoba sasixoxa ngezimpawu zomhlaba esasidlula kuzo. Bengilalela ngamabomu iseluleko somshayeli webhasi mayelana nokulahla ukulahlwa emibonweni yabanye abantu. Kunokuba ngimthulise, futhi nezwi lami liphansi, ngenza okuphambene, futhi kwaba kuhle! Ngaqaphela ukuthi uJenson wayesabela ekuziphatheni kwami okukhululekile, futhi ukukhululeka kwami kwakunomthelela omuhle kakhulu ekuziphatheni kwakhe. Lapho sibuyela emgwaqweni omkhulu, saba nenye ingxoxo emnandi futhi ngafunda igama lomngane wethu omusha, futhi wangitshela kancane ngomndeni wakhe. Selokhu sahlangana izikhathi ezimbalwa no-Laslo, futhi sathatha uhambo ngenombolo 23. U-Jenson ujabule ngokuthi unomngane omusha futhi ngiyajabula ukuthi ngiye ngathola isenzo esingahleliwe somusa esiye saholela nakanjani ekushintsheni okuhle ukuziphatha kwami kanye nombono wami. Emazwini kaLaslo, “Umhlaba udinga ukuqonda okwengeziwe” kanye nokuthi “Ubani onendaba nalokho izwe elikucabangayo?” Manje ngizama ukusebenzisa le mantra nsuku zonke, ngiyabonga Laslo! Okuthunyelwe Umshayeli webhasi, isifundo sempilo kanye nesenzo somusa esingahleliwe sivele kuqala ku-Firefly Blog. ************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/advice -support/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/disabilities/
