Ibhulogi yakamuva ye-Autism eminyakeni yobusha isilungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/autism-in-the-teenage-years/Abantu abaningi bangitshele ukuthi kuzoba lula njengoba izingane zami zikhula. Babengeke baswele kangako noma bafune ngenkani futhi babeyoba ngokuzimela.Anginaso isiqiniseko sokuthi ngabe bayitholile yini ingxenye 'yokukhubazeka impilo yonke' ye-autism kodwa ukuba nentsha emibili ye-autistic nakanjani akubanga lula. Eqinisweni, cishe ngibanakekela kakhulu manje kunangesikhathi besebancane!Ukukhulisa intsha ye-autistic kuhluke ngokuphelele ekukhuliseni abane-neurotypical.Ukuzimela akuqinisekisiwe nganoma iyiphi indlela futhi amahomoni okuzulazula abangawaqondi kanye nobunzima bokuxhumana nontanga nochwepheshe abaningi abahilelekile kwengeza ingcindezi ehluke ngokuphelele kulokho yokukhulisa izingane ezincane.Isikole samabanga aphezulu siyinto ehluke kakhulu lapho izingane zami ziyingxenye yamakhulu abonwa uthisha ngamunye nsuku zonke. Usuku nosuku izingane zami kufanele zibhekane nezinguquko eziningi, izimfuno, izinto ezilindelwe, ingcindezi yomphakathi kanye nezingcindezi zesikhathi ngokusekelwa okuncane kakhulu ukuzisiza ukuthi zidlule.Bese kuba nengcindezi yokuthi uvumelane, uvumelane nabanye, ukhule.Bangase, njengendodakazi yami, bazifihle usuku lonke bese bephuka noma bancibilike ekhaya njengoba ingcindezi idedelwa. Bangase babe nomuzwa wokuthi kufanele bafihle lokho abakujabulela ngempela ngoba besaba ukugconwa abanye.Amakhono okuxhumana nabanye abantu abawathatha kalula angase adide kakhulu futhi adukise enze izinto zibe nzima noma zicasule nsuku zonke. Ukuqaphela ukuthi bahlukile kanye nomzabalazo wokwamukela ukuthi kunzima kakhulu ukuphatha ikakhulukazi phakathi neminyaka yokuthomba kanye nama-hormone aphezulu.Bese kuba khona imizimba yabo eshintshayo, ukukhula kanye nakho konke okuza nokuthomba: izinwele, amabele, amadevu nezinkathi. Ukuchazela izingane ezizonda uguquko ngakho konke lokhu kuyinselelo enkulu hhayi kwabanhliziyo zibuthakathaka! Ukuzilungiselela lapho ungakwazi ukusho ngokuqondile ukuthi okuthile kuzokwenzeka nini kuthumela ukukhathazeka esibhakabhakeni futhi kubangela ukukhungatheka okukhulu.Yiminyaka lapho ukuxhumana komphakathi kuba yinkimbinkimbi kakhulu futhi kuyinkimbinkimbi futhi kubangela ukukhathazeka okukhulu entsheni yami ye-autistic esacabanga okumnyama nokumhlophe futhi ethatha yonke into ngokoqobo. 'Bahleka nami noma bahleka mina?' iba ukukhathazeka kwansuku zonke. 'Ngabe bangumngane wami ngempela noma bayangisebenzisa nje?' kuba umbuzo wasebusuku engilwela ukubasiza bawuphendule.Njengoba izingane zami sezikhulile, umehluko phakathi kwazo nontanga yazo uye wanda kakhulu.I-autism isobala kakhulu, ivulekile, futhi ibonakala futhi isengozini kakhulu kunangaphambili. Ibhalansi phakathi kokuzama ukubavikela ngenkathi ubavumela ukuthi bahlangabezane nomhlaba ukuze bafunde futhi bakhule iba nzima nakakhulu usuku nosuku.Ngifuna baziqhenye ngokuba yi-autistic, bamukele kahle ukuthi bangobani ngaphandle kokwesaba kodwa ngabe ngibabekela ukuthi bahlukunyezwe futhi bakhishwe umphakathi noma kufanele ngibabuke bezabalaza ukuze bahlanganise imaski ukuze baphumelele esikoleni esiphakeme ngaphandle kokuba target?Lokho kwaba wumshikashika wami kwaze kwaba yilapho indodakazi yami ihlukumezeka ngokuphelele futhi manje ifunda ekhaya futhi indodana yami engakhulumi yafakwa ekilasini eliyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu esikoleni sayo esikhethekile.Manje sebekhululekile ukuba yikho kanye abayikho kodwa bobabili basangidinga kakhulu kunakuqala.Kubo bonke labo bazali abakhulisa intsha ye-autistic: Ngiyayithola. Awuwedwa. Thatha usuku ngalunye ngesikhathi futhi khumbula lokhu nakho kuzodlula!Okuthunyelwe I-Autism eminyakeni yobusha ivele kuqala ku-Firefly Blog.************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/advice -support/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/disabilities/
