Ibhulogi yakamuva Lapho isikole singalungile enganeni yakho isilungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/when-school-isnt-right-for-your-child/Kusukela ngelanga aqala ngalo wathi uyalizonda. Ngacabanga ukuthi usuku lokuqala lwemizwa. Kwakuwushintsho olukhulu. Wayezosheshe ajwayele futhi azinze.Kwadlula izinyanga ezimbalwa waqala ukushintsha. Ukushintsha kwemizwa, ukushintsha kokuziphatha, izinyembezi. Ngibeke phansi ukukhathala, ama-hormone, ukukhumbula abangane bakhe bakudala.Kwabe sekuqala: Ukukhononda ngesisu esibuhlungu, ikhanda elibuhlungu, ukunqaba ukugqoka, ukugula. Ngamkhuthaza ukuba acabange ukuthi ngenza into efanele.Wayefika ekhaya engitshela izinto ezibonakala zingalungile.Ngithumele i-imeyili futhi bangathembisa ukuyilungisa. Bese kuzokwenzeka okunye futhi ngizothumela i-imeyili futhi. Futhi futhi. Futhi futhi. Ama-imeyili aba imihlangano. Noma kunjalo wayengajabule. Ngaleso sikhathi wayenqaba ngisho nokuya, ezigulisa, ekhala impelasonto yonke.Mhlawumbe bekungesona isikole esimfanele?Inkinga ngokuba nengane enezidingo ezengeziwe nokho ukuthi akulula njengokukhetha esinye isikole. Ngangingakasikhethi ngisho nesikole sakhe ukuqala! Kuningi kakhulu ebekungaphezu kwamandla ami futhi konke okunye ukubekwa kwalabo abanezidingo ezengeziwe bese kuthathwe nohlu olude lokulinda futhi.Sazama ukukwenza kusebenze, mhlawumbe isikhathi eside kakhulu kunalokho ebengifanele ngibe nakho, kodwa ekugcineni kwaba sobala ukuthi isikole kwakungeyona indawo efanelekile yengane yami ene-autism.Kwathatha nje indaba yamasonto ukuthola imvume esemthethweni yokumkhipha. Ukubekwa kwakhe bekufunwa futhi kwenye ingane kungase kube indawo ebafanele ncamashi. Enganeni yami nakuba impilo yakhe yengqondo bekumele ize kuqala.Ukuhlukumezeka esikoleni kungokoqobo kakhulu futhi kuvame kakhulu kunalokho abaningi abakucabangayo, ikakhulukazi kubantu abasha abane-autistic njengendodakazi yami. Indaba yakhe ayihlukile neze ngoba uhlelo lwesikole luvame ukuguquguquka futhi lulinganiselwe.Izingane zihlanganiswa ndawonye ngokuvamile ngokusekelwe kuphela ekuxilongweni noma endaweni kanye nezindawo ezivame ukunqunywa abantu abangakaze bahlangane nengane. Kwezinye izingane lokhu kusebenza kahle kodwa kwabanye abaningi kusaqhubeka kuwumshikashika futhi ngenxa yalokho impilo yabo yengqondo iyagula.Isikole akusona sonke isikhathi esiyisilungiselelo esifanele ingane ukuze sifunde.Sidinga izinketho ezingcono zokwamukela izidingo ezibanzi futhi zifanele ingane ngayinye. Akukhona mayelana 'nokuhlanganyela enganeni eyonakele' njengoba abanye bebonakala becabanga, kodwa ukuphendula ekukhulumisaneni kwengane yakho nokulalela ngokweqiniso izidingo zayo.Kunesikhathi lapho isikole sasiyilungiselelo elifanele ingane yami kodwa izinto zashintsha futhi ukushintshela esikoleni esiphakeme kwakungaphezu kwalokho ayekwazi ukubhekana nakho.Bekungelula ukuphambana namabele futhi ngibone ukuthi isikole akuyona indawo elungele ingane yami kodwa kube yisinqumo esingcono kakhulu engasithatha. Ingane yami isafunda kakhulu…kuvele kwenzeke endaweni ehlukile manje ngoba yilokho ekudingayo.Isithombe esisodwa nesisodwa sesikole ayenaso ngesikhathi sakhe kwakufanele angitshele ukuthi ezinyangeni ezedlule. Ukube ngalalela ngaphambili.Okuthunyelwe Uma isikole singayilungele ingane yakho appeared first on Firefly Blog .************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/
