Ibhulogi yakamuva ethi Ukuphupha Ngomtapo Wezincwadi Wezidingo Ezikhethekile isilungele ukufundwa ku-inthanethi lapha https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/dreaming-of-a-special-needs-library/Awufisi yini ngezinye izikhathi kube khona Umtapo Wezidingo Ezikhethekile? Futhi angikhulumi ngeyodwa nje egcwele izincwadi, kodwa umtapo wolwazi walabo abadlula kulokho oyikho esikhathini esithile. Kokubili isigaba sensiza nesesekelo salokho obukudinga ngaleso sikhathi.Kukhona ompompi abaningi abanezidingo ezikhethekile zokukhulisa izingane. Kunesigaba sosizi; besaphila nalapho ingane isidlulile. Kunenjabulo “yama-inchstones” kanye nempumelelo encane engaba yinto encane ezweni langaphandle. Kunesigaba esithi 'Ngididekile ngemishini yezokwelapha ehlala isikhathi eside'. Isigaba sezomthetho sokuthi kufanele ngilwe nenqwaba yokuphika. Isigaba sokufunda ukuthi ungaba kanjani wedwa futhi ungenaye umngane ngo-4am ongamshayela lapho ingane yakho isanda kuba nokuquleka kwesihlanu ebusuku futhi uyesaba.Indawo engaphakathi kwelabhulali enamatafula ayindilinga, nezihlalo ezemukelekayo neziduduzayo kangangoba bekuzwakala njengokugonana ngaleso sikhathi.. Indawo lapho ungakhiphi nje izincwadi eshalofini kodwa nihlezi ndawonye ngokweseka kwangempela kanye nobudlelwane. Mhlawumbe nokuhlala nje uthule ngoba amagama anzima kakhulu ukuwasho, kodwa ngokuqondana okungakhulumeki.Lapho ngesikhathi esifanayo kungadingeki uthule futhi uhlebe futhi uvunyelwe ukuvumela umphefumulo wakho unanele ukukhala kwempi okukhulu kakhulu nobuhlungu benhliziyo. Lapho ukuthuka nokuklabalasa kwakungeyona into engafanele futhi ukuveza ubuhlungu bakho kwakungadingeki ukuba kucindezelwe. Lapho kungazange kukhishwe isahlulelo nganoma yisiphi imizwa oyibonisile.Umtapo wolwazi onikeze ikhofi elingapheli lamahhala ngenxa yokuthi ukhathele kangangokuthi wonke amagama akunoma iyiphi incwadi afiphalisiwe ngenxa yokuntuleka kokulala. Mhlawumbe ngisho nokudla okuncane egameni lalowo owake washunyayelwa kodwa “ukuzinakekela” okunzima.Umtapo wolwazi othi leso yisigaba sami futhi labo ngabantu bami abagxile kule ngxenye yezidingo ezikhethekile zokukhulisa izingane kanye nami.Lapho ungasusa khona imibono komunye nomunye ngaphandle kokugodla ukuhlaselwa noma ukulinyazwa ngemicabango nemizwa yakho.Lapho zingekho khona izimali ezikhokhwayo zebhuku ezidlulelwe yisikhathi noma izinhlawulo zokudinga ukunamathela esisetshenziswa isikhathi eside njengoba ubusidinga. Bheka amakhadi into yesikhathi esedlule lapho sonke sasisebenza khona lapho ngifika ohlelweni lokuhlonipha. Lapho kungekho muntu ongakusola khona uma wephuzile, noma ube nokuzibophezela kwangaphambili obekuphoqa kakhulu.Osolwazi bazoba abazali abanezidingo ezikhethekile manje eminyakeni yabo emihle egcwele ukuqonda, ububele, umusa nozwelo olungapheli kubazali abasebasha abasanda kungena ohambweni. Singageza ngolwazi lwabo, sibabuze ukuthi iyiphi indlela okufanele bahambe ngayo, nokuthi yini okufanele siyigweme.Indawo yethu ephephile yokucwaninga nokubuzana imibuzo kude kude namehlo enqubekelaphambili nabahlinzeki.Ukwazi ukuthi sizohlanganisa amakhanda ethu ngisho noma kuthatha amahora ukuthola isisombululo. Indawo lapho kwavele kwaqondwa ukuthi umama nobaba bazazi kangcono izingane zabo.Umtapo wolwazi ubuzovulwa amahora angu-24 ngosuku, ngakho uma unenkinga yaphakathi kwamabili ungase uthole ingxenye oyidingayo. Umsebenzi womtapo wolwazi uzohlangana nawe emnyango ukuze akuqinisekise ukuthi ungathola indlela yakho kalula. Uyobingelelwa ngobubele futhi umsebenzi wasemtapweni wolwazi uzocela ukukuthathela noma yini oyidingayo.Iyiphi ingxenye yelabhulali ongaya kuyo kuqala? Ukuphi ohambweni? Iyiphi incwadi odinga kakhulu ukuyithola?The post Ukuphupha Ngomtapo Wezincwadi Wezidingo Ezikhethekile appeared first on Firefly Blog.************ https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/advice -support/,https://www.fireflyfriends.com/uk/blog/special-needs/disabilities/
