Ukuphepha kwe-inthanethi kwezingane

I-inthanethi ingaba yindawo eyingozi kubantu abangaqaphile, ikakhulukazi izingane. 'Izigxivizo zedijithali' zomuntu zingaba lula ukuzilandela njengezinyathelo zabo zangempela.
Abazali abaningi bakhathazeka ngokuthi bangazivikela kanjani izingane zabo ekulimaleni kwe-inthanethi noma ukuthintana nabantu abangamukelekile.

Lokhu kungase kuhlanganise ukuhlukumeza, ubuxhwanguxhwangu (okwaziwa ngokuthi 'ubuxhwanguxhwangu be-inthanethi'), ukucanasa noma ukuzilungisa (ukwenza ubungane ngenjongo yokuya ocansini kamuva). Kubalulekile ukuchaza izingozi zokusebenzisa i-inthanethi ngokunganaki enganeni yakho futhi ubeke iso elibukhali ekusebenziseni kwayo i-inthanethi.

Fundisa ingane yakho ukuzivikela ku-inthanethi.

Iziphakamiso ezijwayelekile zokuphepha zabazali

Iziphakamiso zifaka:

• Akukho okungathatha indawo yokugada kwabazali. Hlala ubhekile ukuthi ingane yakho yenzani ku-inthanethi.
• Abantu abaningi, okuhlanganisa nezingane, bakholelwa ukuthi ukuphequlula ku-inthanethi akwaziwa. Fundisa ingane yakho nokuhlala phakade 'kwesithunzi sayo sedijithali'. Noma nini lapho bevakashela iwebhusayithi, babelana ngokuqukethwe, befaka okuthile kubhulogi noma belayisha ulwazi, banezela 'kugxivizo lwedijithali' lwabo. Lokhu kungaqoqwa ngaphansi kwegama labo langempela futhi kufinyelelwe abantu abanentshisekelo njengabaqashi bakusasa noma iminyango yokumaketha. Lokhu kungenzeka ngaphandle kwakho noma ngaphandle kwemvume noma ulwazi lwengane yakho.
• Ingane yakho kufanele ixhumane ne-inthanethi kuphela nabantu ebaziyo kakade. Abantu ongabazi abafuna ukuba 'abangane' be-inthanethi bengane yakho empeleni bangase babe abahlukumezi bobulili obudala. Gada ubudlelwano be-inthanethi bengane yakho.
• Cela ukuthi ingane yakho ihlole nawe kuqala ngaphambi kokugcwalisa amafomu aku-inthanethi. Gcizelela ukubaluleka kokungalokothi wabelane ngolwazi lomuntu siqu ku-inthanethi.
• Faka isofthiwe yokuphepha kukhompuyutha yakho ukuze ukwazi ukukhawulela imisebenzi ye-inthanethi yengane yakho kumawebhusayithi agunyaziwe.

Izingosi zokuxhumana

Ingosi yokuxhumana nabantu ivumela umsebenzisi ukuthi axhumane ku-inthanethi nabangani, amalungu omndeni nabantu angabazi abanezintshisekelo ezifanayo. Izingosi zokuxhumana ezidumile zifaka i-Facebook ne-MySpace. Abasebenzisi bangaxhumana nabanye ngezindlela eziningi - bashintshisane ngezindaba zabo, balayishe izithombe nezithombe zedijithali, futhi babelane ngezixhumanisi zamakhasi ewebhu athakazelisayo.

Ezinye zezingozi ezingaba khona zokujoyina ingosi yokuxhumana nabantu zihlanganisa:

• Izingcezu nezingcezu zolwazi ingane yakho ezifaka kuphrofayela yazo zingase zinikeze ikheli layo lendawo. Ngokwesibonelo, uma ingane yakho inikeza igama layo eliphelele, iqoka indawo engaphansi kwayo futhi ilayisha izithombe zesikole, noma ubani ofisa ukukusho angakhomba indawo yakhe.
• Ulwazi mayelana nezinto zokuzilibazisa nezithakazelo zinikeza indlela elula yokuthi izigilamkhuba zocansi zithintane kahle nengane yakho.
• Noma yini eshicilelwe ku-inthanethi kufanele ithathwe njengerekhodi elingunaphakade. Uhlobo lwezinto ezithunyelwe yingane yakho zingase zilimaze amathuba ayo omsebenzi esikhathini esizayo. Kulezi zinsuku, abaqashi bahlola njalo labo abangase babe amakhandidethi ngokubheka 'idumela labo ledijithali'.

Izingosi zokuxhumana nabantu - iziphakamiso zokuphepha zabazali

Iziphakamiso zifaka:

• Khawulela imininingwane yomuntu siqu esohlwini lwe-inthanethi. Ingane yakho akufanele ithumele igama layo eliphelele, ubudala, usuku lokuzalwa, ikheli, i-imeyili, izinombolo zocingo noma ulwazi lwesikole. Bakhuthaze ukuthi basebenzise igama lesikrini elenziwe lakhiwe.
• Setha iphrofayela yengane yakho ibe 'yimfihlo' ukuze abangani abaqinisekisiwe kuphela bakwazi ukufinyelela ulwazi lwabo. Iya engxenyeni yobumfihlo yengosi yokuxhumana nabantu ukuze uthole ulwazi olwengeziwe mayelana nendlela yokuvikela iphrofayela yengane yakho.
• Hoxisa noma yimiphi imininingwane yekheli. Ungathumeli izithombe ezinganikeza indawo engasedolobheni - isibonelo, izithombe zengane yakho nabangane bayo begqoke umfaniswano wesikole.
• Sebenzisa umsebenzi 'wokungadluliseli izithombe' ukuze izithombe zengane yakho zingakwazi ukudluliselwa kubangani babangane nangale kwalokho.
• Gcizelela ukubaluleka kokungalokothi wabelane ngamaphasiwedi.

Oxhumana naye ongamukelekile

Ukuxhumana okungamukelekile kuhlanganisa ukuhlukumeza, ubuxhwanguxhwangu (okwaziwa ngokuthi 'ubuxhwanguxhwangu be-inthanethi' uma kwenzeka ku-inthanethi noma kusetshenziswa umakhalekhukhwini), ukucupha noma ukuzilungisa (ukwenza ubungane ngenjongo yokuya ocansini kamuva). Njenganoma yikuphi othintana naye ongafuneki, umthombo kungase kube umuntu ongamazi noma kungaba othile owaziwa nguwe noma ingane yakho. Kungaba umuntu omdala noma enye ingane.

Ngaphandle kwemvume yakho noma ulwazi, umuntu angakwazi:

• Hlanganisa ndawonye lonke ulwazi olutholakala esidlangalaleni ngengane yakho ukuze uthole imininingwane yokuxhumana efana nekheli lendawo yengane noma isikole.
• Zime njengontanga ezingosini zokuxhumana nabantu noma ezingosini zezingxoxo.
• Layisha okuthunyelwe okunobutha, okubi noma okubangela amahloni mayelana nengane yakho ezingosini zezingxoxo noma ezingosini zokuxhumana.
• Dala iphrofayela mbumbulu yengane yakho engosini yokuxhumana nabantu ukuze ubangele amahloni noma ubuhlungu.
• Sebenzisa ikheli le-imeyili elithunyelwe ingane yakho ukuze uthumele ama-imeyili anonya noma angafaneleki.