Lezi zisekelo zisiza izingane ukuthi zizivikele ezimeni ezesabekayo.
1. Yazi ikheli lasekhaya nezinombolo zocingo
Abazukulu bakho kufanele babambe ngekhanda ulwazi olubalulekile olumayelana nabo ― njengegama labo nesibongo, iminyaka yabo, ikheli lasekhaya, nezinombolo zocingo zikamama nobaba. Izingane ezincane, ezineminyaka emithathu kuya kwemihlanu azincane kakhulu ukuthi zingakwazi ukufunda lolu lwazi, ngokuzama ukuzifundisa inombolo eyodwa yocingo lapho wazi khona ukuthi kukhona oyohlale eyibamba. Uma izingane zike zalahleka, lolu wulwazi olubalulekile okufanele zilunikeze iphoyisa noma umuntu omdala ukuze ziziyise ekhaya ziphephile.
2. Ungalokothi uye ndawo nomuntu ongamazi
Izingane kufanele zazi ukuthi kulungile ukukhuluma nabantu ongabazi, kodwa akulungile ukuya noma kuphi nomuntu ongamazi. Njalo. Ukutshela izingane ukuthi zingakhulumi nomuntu ezingamazi kuphuca bonke abantu abangase bakwazi ukuzisiza uma zidinga, kusho uLenore Skenazy, umsunguli webhulogi ye-Free-Range Kids. kanye nomfundisi odumile olwela ukulwa nenkolelo yokuthi izingane zethu zihlale zisengozini. Uma ngokwesibonelo, izingane bezilandelwa, kufanele zizizwe zikhululekile ukucela usizo komunye umuntu omdala, njengomnikazi wesitolo. “Ingozi engaziwa” yigama eliphelelwe yisikhathi ngisho neNational Center for Missing and Exploited Children elizama ukuyiyeka, kusho uSkenazy. Kodwa nakuba kungase kuvunyelwe ngezingane ukuba zikhulume nomuntu ezingamazi ezimweni ezithile, izingane akufanele neze ziye nomaphi nomuntu ezingamazi, ngisho noma lowo ongamazi esho izinto ezinjengokuthi, “Nginoswidi lapha,” noma “Umama wakho ungibuze. ukuzokulanda.”
U-Skenazy uncoma ukufundisa izingane ama-R amathathu:
- Yazi ukuthi akekho ongakuthinta lapho isudi yakho yokugeza imboza khona.
- Melana - Yelela, khahlela, ubaleke. Ungaphatheki kahle uma kukhona okuhluphayo.
- Bika - Ngisho noma umuntu ekwenza uthembise ukuthi ngeke ukhulume, tshela.
3. Akekho ovunyelwe ukuthi akuthinte
Ungazifundisa izingane ezineminyaka emithathu ukuthi akekho ongazithinta ezindaweni zokugeza, kusho uSkenazy. Ukukhuluma ngokuthinta ngeke kuzethuse izingane futhi akudingekile ukuthi kuxoxwe ngaso sonke isikhathi sokudla, esho. "Kuthathe njengesinyathelo sokuzivikela esijwayelekile." Qiniseka ukuthi izingane ziyaqonda ukuthi “noma yiluphi uhlobo lokuthinta akufanele lube yimfihlo,” kusho u-Irene van der Zande, umqondisi omkhulu nomsunguli we- Kidpower Teenpower Fullpower International , inhlangano engenzi nzuzo ekhuthaza ukuvikelwa kwezingane.
4. Ungathumeli noma unikeze ulwazi lomuntu siqu noma amagama ayimfihlo ku-inthanethi
Izingane ezincane akufanele zibe ku-inthanethi ngaphandle kokugadwa ngabantu abadala, ngokusho kuka-van der Zande. Uthi: “Kaningi uma kuziwa kwezobuchwepheshe, abantu abadala bayayishiya phansi indima yabo njengabaholi. Uthi: “Ngisho noma ungabuqondi ubuchwepheshe, ungakwazi ukushayela indiza ngokuhlanganyela. Cela izingane ukuthi zichaze ukuthi zenzani ukuze ukwazi ukugada.
Abazukulu abadala bangalindela ubumfihlo obuningi lapho be-inthanethi. Amaphesenti angu-95 entsha (abaneminyaka engu-12-17) aku-inthanethi namuhla, ngokusho kwe -NetSmartz Workshop , uhlelo Lwesikhungo Sikazwelonke Sezingane Ezilahlekile & Ezixhashaziwe. Intsha eku-inthanethi cishe ixhumana nabangane bayo. Kodwa qinisekisa ukuthi bayazi ukuthi abakwazi ukuhlangana nomuntu abakhulume naye ku-inthanethi kuphela, futhi bachaze ukuthi akufanele balokothe ​​bathumele ulwazi lomuntu siqu (njengekheli labo noma igama eliphelele) noma izithombe ngaphandle kwemvume yabantu abadala, kusho u-van der Zande. Akekho okufanele azi amaphasiwedi ezingane ngaphandle kwabazali. Xoxa ngobuxhwanguxhwangu base-inthanethi futhi uchaze ukuthi kufanele bahlale betshela umzali noma umnakekeli uma othile ethumela imilayezo yobuxhwanguxhwangu. Fundisa izingane ukuthi nazo akufanele ziphendule kunoma yimiphi imilayezo engenanhlonipho, kodwa kufanele zigcine imilayezo njengobufakazi, ngokusho kwe-NetSmartz.
5. Yazi ukuthi ungashayela kanjani futhi nini ku-911
Izingane kungenzeka seziyazi ukuthi zingashayela ku-911 uma zidinga usizo, kodwa qiniseka ukuthi ziyazi ukuthi yini esho isimo esiphuthumayo. Ilungu lomndeni eliklinywayo noma elivutha umlilo ekhaya liyisimo esiphuthumayo, kuyilapho lidinga usizo ngomsebenzi wesikole .
6. Akekho umuntu omdala okufanele abacele ukuthi bagcine izimfihlo
“Imfihlo iyigugu elikhulu lomnukubezi,” kusho uSkenazy. Izingane kufanele ziqonde ukuthi umuntu omdala akufanele neze azicele ukuthi zigcine izimfihlo. Izingane kumele zazi ukuthi zingatshela abazali bazo noma ogogo nomkhulu noma yini, ziphinde zikugcizelele ukuthi ngeke uhlanye noma uzisole uma ziza kuwena, kusho uSkenazy. Gcina imigudu yokuxhumana ivulekile ― yenza i- Kidpower Protection Promise futhi utshele izingane ukuthi “kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani, uma unenkinga yokuphepha empilweni yakho, ngifuna ukwazi,” kusho u-van der Zande. Fundisa umehluko phakathi kwezimfihlo eziphephile nezingaphephile. Izimfihlo ezingaphephile, kusho u-van der Zande, zifaka phakathi izinkinga, noma yiluphi uhlobo lokuthinta, izipho umuntu azipha zona, nobungane okungafanele bakhulume. Izimfihlo ezimayelana nokulimaza noma ukuhlupha umuntu nazo ziwucha, kusho uvan der Zande.
7. Themba amathumbu abo
Ngisho nengane encane izoba nomuzwa wokuthi kukhona okungalungile. Fundisa izingane ukwethemba imizwa yazo yemvelo uma zithola umuzwa omubi, bese zilandela u-R wesibili: akudingekile ukuba zibe mnandi uma kukhona ozihluphayo, futhi zingabaleka zithole omunye umuntu, njengomama onezingane noma iphoyisa, ukucela usizo.
Umthombo: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/the-7-safety-rules-all-kids-should-know_n_57ee850fe4b0c2407cdd838c