Ukuyala ingane ngenxa yokukhetha okubi akusho ukuthi kufanele umenze azizwe kabi ngaye. Eqinisweni, isiyalo esihlazisa izingane singabalimaza kakhulu.
Isiyalo esinempilo singasiza ingane yakho ukuba iphatheke kabi ngalokho ekwenzile, kodwa akufanele kumenze azizwe kabi ngalokho eyikho.
Gcina Okulindele Kwakho Kufanelekile
Ukuqonda okucacile kokukhula kwengane kubalulekile ekukhuliseni ingane nge ukuzethemba okunempilo . Uma lokho okulindele ngengane yakho kuphezulu kakhulu, uzobhekana nokukhungatheka okukhulu—kanye nengane yakho—lapho ingakwazi ukuhlangabezana nalezo zilindelo.
Qaphela isidingo sengane yakho sokuzimela kuso sonke isigaba sokukhula. Khomba ingqopha-mlando engokwenhlalo, engokomzimba, engokomzwelo, neyokuhlakanipha ingane yakho efinyelela kuyo. Bese, ungaqinisekisa ukuthi imithetho nemiphumela yakho iyasebenza, amasu okuziphatha afanele iminyaka .
Gwema Ukusebenzisa Amalebula
Kungase kulingeke ukubiza ingane yakho ngokuthi, “Ungumculi wami omncane,” noma “Uyisihlabani sami sezibalo.” Ngeshwa, abanye abazali basebenzisa amalebula aphikisayo, njengokuthi, “Uyi-klutz,” noma “Uyi-hyper yami.” Amalebula enza umonakalo omkhulu kunokuhle —ngisho noma enawo.
Ingane ebizwa ngokuthi “usosayensi omncane,” ingase ingaphishekeli isithakazelo sayo emculweni ngoba icabanga ukuthi kufanele ibe nothando kuphela ngemisebenzi ehlobene nesayensi.
Uma izingane zingakhululekile ukuhlola izithakazelo eziningi, imisebenzi, kanye nezinto eziziphishekelayo, kungalimaza ukuzethemba kwazo.
Hlukanisa Ukuziphatha Kwengane
Ukusho izinto ezinjengokuthi, "Ungumfana omubi!" noma “Uyintombazane egangile!” ishintsha indlela izingane ezizibona ngayo. Futhi uma beqala ukuzibheka njengababi, maningi amathuba okuba baziphathe kabi.
Yincome Imizamo Yengane Yakho
Ngezinye izikhathi abazali batusa ukuphelela kuphela. Kodwa uma usho izinto ezinjengokuthi, "Umsebenzi omuhle wokushaya imigomo emibili namuhla," noma "Umsebenzi omuhle kakhulu wokuthola wonke amagama akho esipelingi kahle," ingane yakho ingase icabange ukuthi kufanele iphumelele ukuze ifanelekele amagama anomusa.
Zikhuze Ngokufunda - Hhayi Ukujeziswa
Ukuzama ukwenza ingane izizwe kabi cishe ngeke kuyikhuthaze ukuba yenze kangcono. Kodwa, ukunikeza a umphumela onengqondo ngendlela enenhlonipho ingamsiza afunde amakhono azomvimbela ukuba angaliphindi iphutha lakhe.
