Imibono Yempumelelo Yokufunda Izindlu Zangasese

UKUFUNDA KWASE-TOILETH: INGABE INGANE YAKHO ISILUNGILE?

Ngokulinda kuze kube yilapho ingane yakho isilungele “ukuqeqeshwa ebhodweni,” noma ukufunda endlini yangasese, siyayivikela - nawe - ekuhlehliseni ingcindezi. Lokho kusho ukuthi inqubo yokufundisa ingane yakho ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese iqala lapho isiqala ukubonisa izimpawu zokuthi ikulungele. Lezi zimpawu zokuthuthuka zihlanganisa:

• Ukuhlala womile isikhathi eside
• Ukukhuluma ngezindlu zangasese, okungukuthi, ukukutshela ukuthi baye endlini yokugezela nge-diaper yabo
• Iyakwazi ukuxhuma umfutho ukuze iqede ngesenzo sokuqeda
• Ukuveza ukungaphatheki kahle ngamanabukeni angcolile/amanzi
• Ukusebenzisa amagama aphakamisa intshisekelo endlini yangasese
• Ebuza ngendlu yangasese noma impahla yangaphansi
• Ukukhombisa ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuchama noma ukhiphe amathumbu

UKUFUNDA KWASE-TOILET: INGABE ULUNGILE?

Nansi imibuzo embalwa wena kanye/noma umlingani wakho ongumzali okufanele niyicabangele futhi nixoxe ngayo ngaphambi kokuba uqale inqubo yokwethula ingane yakho ukufunda endlini yangasese. Ngokunjalo, kunconywa ukuthi uxoxe ngokunye kwalokhu okucatshangelwayo nothisha wengane yakho, futhi wenze uhlelo olusuka ekhaya luye ekunakekelweni kwengane, bese ubuyela emuva - ukusebenzisana kwakho nothisha nabanye abanakekeli kuzodlala indima ebalulekile ekusizeni ingane yakho ifunde ukusebenzisa. indlu yangasese ngempumelelo.

• Ungakwazi yini ukunikela izinsuku ezimbalwa ukuze uhlale eduze nasekhaya ukuze uqale inqubo?
• Ingabe umkhaya wakho ubhekene noshintsho olukhulu, njengokuthuthela kwelinye ikhaya noma ukuzalwa komntwana?
• Ingabe ukulungele ukugeza imithwalo eyengeziwe yempahla?
• Ingabe unawo amathawula amaningi ephepha nemikhiqizo yokuhlanza etholakalayo?
• Usubonile ukuthi yimaphi amagama esizowasebenzisela ukuchama nokukhipha amathumbu?
• Ingabe uzosebenzisa indlu yangasese, isihlalo esincane sebhodwe, noma uzobonisa ukuthi ungabambelela kanjani endlini yangasese? (Qaphela: Eminye imindeni ikhethe ukusebenzisa isihlalo esinamabhodwe ekhaya, kodwa ngenxa yokuthi asisetshenziswa ezikhungweni zokunakekela izingane ngenxa yezizathu zokuhlanzeka, kuvame ukutuseka ukusiza ingane yakho ifunde ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese evamile.)
• Uzofundisa ingane yakho ukusukuma noma ukuhlala phansi ukuze ichame? Abazali abaningi bakuthola kulula ukuqala ukufunda endlini yangasese nengane yakho ihlezi ize ikwazi ukulawula futhi ikhululeke kakhudlwana.

AMACEBISO OKUSINZA UKUFUNDA KWASETHYILE

Dala ithimba lokufunda langasese. Hlela umhlangano nothisha wengane yakho ukuze nixoxe ngokuthi ningabambisana kanjani ukuze nisekele inqubo. Kubalulekile ukuthi wena nothisha nibe sekhasini elilodwa, nisebenzisa amagama afanayo, futhi nilandele isimiso esifanayo.

Hlela isimiso. Yenza “isikhathi sasendlini yangasese” sibe yingxenye yesimiso sakho sansuku zonke, njengokuxubha amazinyo noma ukulungiselela ukulala. Faka phakathi imikhuba yenhlanzeko esimisweni sakho, njengokusula kahle nokugeza izandla .

Gwema ukusebenzisa uhlelo lokuklomelisa. Ngokuvamile, asincomi ukusebenzisa amashadi ezitikha noma eminye imiklomelo, njengoba ufuna ingane yakho yakhe isifiso esizalwa nayo sokusebenzisa indlu yangasese ngaphandle kwesithembiso somklomelo.

Ishayele ihlombe umzamo. Vumela izingane zihlale endlini yangasese imizuzu embalwa njalo emahoreni ambalwa. Uma kungaveli lutho, uthi, “Ngijabule kakhulu ngokuthi uzame! Ungazama futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.” Yiba umholi we-cheerleader nonomdlandla. “Ngiyajabula ngokuthi uyazama,” kuyinkulumo ekhuthazayo lapho bezama kodwa bengayi. "Kwakuhle kuwe!" kuhambisana nokuphikelela kwengane yakho kanye nobunikazi besenzo, lapho inohambo oluyimpumelelo.

Gcina ubhasikidi wezincwadi endlini yokugezela. Ukufunda kuyaphumuza kakhulu futhi kungase kusize ukukhuthaza ukuqedwa. Futhi, ezinye izingane zijabulela ukufunda kakhulu, zikhohlwe ukuthi zihlezi endlini yangasese.

Dlala. Izingane zikulungele kakhudlwana ukufuna ukwenza okuthile okujabulisayo. Ungase wenze izingoma (ungenele igama lengane yakho ukuze ujabule), ugxumele endlini yangasese njengonogwaja, noma udlale “I-Spy.”

UKUFUNDA KWASE-TOILET: KUZOKWENZA INGOZI

Ukufunda endlini yangasese kudinga ukuzibophezela nokuqonda - futhi lokho kuhlanganisa ukubhekana nezingozi . Ngisho noma uzizwa ukhungathekile, gwema isifiso sokujezisa noma sokuhlazisa ingane yakho lapho kuba nesiphithiphithi. Kunalokho, yiba neqiniso ngengozi ngangokunokwenzeka.

Vuma izingubo ezingcolile ngendlela ezolile, zisize zishintshe zibe izingubo ezihlanzekile, futhi unikeze isikhuthazo esiningi nokuqinisa okuhle ngesikhathi esizayo lapho indlu yangasese isetshenziswa ngempumelelo. Misa ingane yakho ukuze iphumelele ngokubheka izinkomba zengane yakho okungenzeka idinge ukuya kuzo, noma ngokumisa isibali sikhathi sokuhlola “indlu yangasese”.

Uma ingane yakho iqhubeka ithola izingozi noma ingavami ukuthi iye endlini yangasese, kungase kube uphawu lokuthi kusesekuseni kakhulu ukuthi iqale ukufunda endlini yangasese, okuyinto enhle kakhulu. Uma kunjalo, zama amanabukeni noma ukudonsa futhi, futhi uqhubeke ubheke izimpawu zokuthi aselungile. Usengabakhuthaza ukuthi bakutshele uma bedinga ushintsho. Ngale ndlela bakwazisa ukuthi sebehambile, okuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokufunda noma kunjalo. Ingane yakho kufanele ibone ukuthi “ikwenzile” futhi ifunde “ukuyibamba.”

Kwesinye isikhathi, izingozi " ziyisimo." Uma ingane yakho icindezelekile noma ibhekene nohlobo oluthile lokucindezeleka , njengekhaya elisha noma ingane yakubo, ingase ibe nezingozi eziningi. Kuvamile lokho. Lapho ukuphila kushelela, kanjalo nezingozi.

Futhi, uma ingane yakho ibonakala ikhungathekile noma ucasukile, yima. Ngeke kuyidide ingane yakho uma uyeka bese uqala futhi lapho isilungile noma usulungile. Ngezinye izikhathi izinyanga ezimbalwa noma ngisho amasonto angenza inqubo yokufunda yenzeke cishe ngobusuku obubodwa.

IZINSIZA ZOKUFUNDA ZETHAYILE: IZINCWADI ZEZINGANE

• " Ngisho Nabacimi Bomlilo Baya Ebhodweni: Indaba Yokuqeqesha Ngamabhodwe Lift-the-Flap" ka-Wendy Wax: Le ncwadi ye-lift-the-flap inemidwebo yopopayi enamasiko amaningi futhi igcizelela ngendlela ejabulisayo umqondo wokuthi wonke umuntu kufanele athathe isikhathi ukusebenzisa ibhodwe, ngisho izicishamlilo, amaphoyisa, onjiniyela bezitimela, njll.
• " Wonke umuntu Poops" nguTaro Gomi: Isihloko sisho konke! Le ncwadi ehlekisayo ibonisa izilwane ezihlukahlukene namandle azo. Le ncwadi futhi yethula umehluko emikhubeni yomuntu yangasese kusukela ebuntwaneni kuya ekubeni umuntu omdala.
• “ Ukuya Ebhodweni” kaFred Rogers: Ngendlela yakhe ezolile, eqinisekisayo namazwi alula, uMnu. Rogers uxoxa ngokufunda ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese ngendlela ingane encane engayiqonda. Ukhuluma ngemizwa ingane engase ibe nayo noma ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi umsindo wendlu yangasese eshaywayo uba nomsindo, kanye nalokho ingane engase izizwe ngokomzwelo. Izithombe zibonisa imindeni enamasiko amaningi.
• “ Toilet Tales” kaBrigitte Waisberg no-Andrea Wayne Konigslow: Ngezincazelo ezihlekisayo, umbhali uchaza ukuthi kungani izilwane zingakwazi ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese (imbuzi idla iphepha lasendlini yangasese noma indlovu iphihliza indlu yangasese), kodwa izingane zingakwazi.

IZINSIZA ZOKUFUNDA ZETHYILE: IZINCWADI ZABAZALI

• “ I-American Academy of Pediatrics Guide to Toilet Training” ka-Mark L. Wolraich: I-American Academy of Pediatrics Guide to Toilet Training ituswa njengesisetshenziswa esiwusizo ukumboza izisekelo zokusekela ingane yakho ngalesi senzakalo esiyingqopha-mlando.
• “ Ukuqeqeshwa Kwamabhodwe Okungenakucindezeleka: Umhlahlandlela Ovamile Wokuthola Indlela Elungile Yengane Yakho” kaSara Au noPeter Stayinoha: Umbhali ukhuluma ngokufunda ukusebenzisa indlu yokugezela njengomkhuba wokudlula. Uhlukanisa izinhlobo zobuntu obuvamile bezingane futhi unikeza amasu afanele izingane okungenzeka ukuthi zesaba, ezithambekele ezizweni, ezigxile emigomweni, ezizimisele, njll. Le ncwadi isiza ekudambiseni ukukhathazeka kwabazali ngoba ichaza ukuthi zonke izingane zihlukile—kodwa zihlukile. imane idinga amasu ahlukene.
• " Isixazululo Sokuqeqeshwa Kwembiza Okungakhali" ka-Elizabeth Pantley: Umbhali uxoxa ngendlela yokunquma isikhathi esifanele sokuqala ukusiza ingane yakho ukuthi ifunde ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese, ukugqugquzela ingane emadolonzima, nokwenza uhlelo olulula oluhambisana nomndeni wakho. Okuhlukile kule ncwadi uhlu lokuhlola ukuphepha kwegumbi lokugezela elihlanganisa namasu okuvikela ingane yakho yokugezela.

Qiniseka: iminyaka ingane yakho efunda ngayo ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese ayibonisi ikhono lakho lokuba umzali noma ukuhlakanipha kwengane yakho. Ingane yakho izobonisa izimpawu zokukhula ezibonisa ukuthi isilungele ukufunda; sebenzisa lezo zinkomba ukuze uqondise inqubo - futhi uthathe isinyathelo esisodwa noma ezimbili emuva kunqubo uma kunesidingo. Khumbula: izingane eziningi ezilandela izigaba ezijwayelekile zokukhula ekugcineni ziyafunda ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese - izilingo, izinyembezi, nosizi kuzoba yinkumbulo ekude!

Umthombo: https://www.brighthorizons.com/family-resources/ideas-for-successful-toilet-learning